Do European women in general find Asian men attractive more often than an American women would?

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(prefer European women to answer this one)

American women has been said to be racist against Asian men, whether this is due to the media or what is a matter of debate. it has been said that the Asian male image in America has been so destroyed that it was culturally consider embarrassing to be for a white girl to be associated romantic with an Asian guy? Europe on the other hand has no such issue. European women has been said to be romantically interested in Asian men whereas American women hates Asian men. Perhaps the media tool is too powerful to fight in America?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

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I am a Chinese (don't be surprised, we are 20% of the whole population on Earth) who has been in Germany for more than 5 years (not telling a lie, and you can check my IP address).

I am 35, 175cm, divorced, PhD, with a job, speak little German... Some of the above words sound quite negative for approaching European girls (the age, the history, etc), but in fact I never worry about this issue.

The man above who said he ever dated/hooked up 60 women is a silly guy, because this number is obviously fake. He just tried to save his dignity by telling a lie. My number is 2 (from 2015 Jan to 2017 Feb, and one girl is serious).

I dated with a native German girl from Sachsen (a state in Eastern Germany which is supposed to have more racists). We were together for 11 months and the result of this relationship was not successful, because she has negative life attitude due to her childhood and family problems, and because our sex life was terrible. I tried my best to make her normal and I really hated using lubricant each time.

Since I am a serious man who doesn’t want to be promiscuous, I rejected several German girls who can’t attract me. Thus the above number of 2 isn’t so terrinble.

This is so different from the common assumption in China: the European women are strong at sex life, blablabla. I have no problem with my ex (s) in China (much water after 10min preplay, wonderful moan) ….. OK, I might meet an extreme example, because the German couple above me in the same building make loud noisy quite often. My only conclusion is there is no difference of sex life between the Chinese and the German.

Recently I am single again, and there are a few options for me, a German girl, a Chinese, and someone else. Personally I like German girls for several reasons: they are tall and big and I like tall girls by my nature.

YourHusband · Accepted Answer

that's more of a reflection of the stupidity and ignorance of American women than any fault of Asian men themselves; after all, there's a reason the rest of the world hates americans (asian americans excluded).

but in actuality, even American women would consider a good looking and masculine Asian man as superior to most non-asian men, as a lot of attraction has to do with human nature. also, Asian American women like good looking Asian men more than any other type of man; this is why the hottest Asian American women are always seen with Asian men. plus, many Asian men do not like non-asian American women as they are too uncultured, ugly, and overweight

LucijaTeddy · Accepted Answer

I'm from Croatia and I know a whole community of girls who are very attracted to Asian guys. In my case, white guys don't even do it for me anymore, i just kinda lost interest in them tbh. But the thing is that Asians in Croatia are just so rare! It's sad for girls like me. Even when I walk past a random Asian (man or woman), it just makes me smile and I'm afraid I just look lile a creep haha. I did actually see a good looking Asian at my university (he looked darker so I was guessing he is from south east Asia), and as I was walking past him, I told my friend in Croatian: ow damn look how hot he is, thinking he couldn't understand me. But as it turns out, he speaks croatian so he must've heard me (i overheard him talking in a uni caffeteria). But he didn't approach me or anything. So my point is: he either doesn't like me in that way (or is already in a relationship) or he is too shy to talk to me. Guys, if you see a girl smilling at you, assume she likes you and do something about it :)

springdragonfly · Accepted Answer

my parents are european. I grew up in Canada .

I have no preferences as to race in my partners. I tend to find tall, lean and dark-haired attractive. Some Asian men fit into that category. I also tend to like people who share similar world-views, attitudes etc. I would imagine that would be easier to find in someone who was culturally closer, but you never know.

cuteshark · Accepted Answer

I'm French and I love Asian boys. Hehehe.

InGermany · Answer

Originally from Japan, I have lived in Germany for 10yrs, got married and divorced with German girls twice. Now I am 41yrs old. Also studied in Canada in my early 20s. Got master degree in Germany, working as an equity portfolio manager, also, in Germany.

To answer your question, in Europe, I attracted a lot more girls than in Canada. True, I was in Canada in my early 20s, and did not know how to charm girls and had hard time, finding a girlfriend. But in the end, I had a first girlfriend from France in Montreal. After that, I only dated with Europeans. That time, i was a bit skinny (like BTS figure) as that was the beauty standard in Japan. However, european girls (that I met) found me attractive, while it could be less appealing to girls in North America, in General. I got married with a german girl (who is super super pretty), but divorced afte 4yrs.

In my 30s, I did my master degree in Germany and gained muscle (as i finally realized that girls like it). I partied a lot (x2-x3 a week) and hooked up with super pretty girls often (i was picky, so 5-10 times a year. I count just kissing as "hook up". Maybe I could hook up a bit more if i were not that selective). You may think 5-10times hookups are not enough if I had so many parties, but i think i was on average among other my party male friends. Anyways, these girls told me that I am very cool and the funniest guy they've encountered (or maybe they were heavily drunk :) ) This continued until having a serious relationship with my second wife (from Germany).

Now, I am in my 40s, working in Germany. Since I work in a small investmemt firm, I do not meet any potential date in the office. So I started using Tinder and Bamble. Then I was quit surprised. Hardly got any likes. Maybe 15 likes in 1 year. (HERE: I have an issue. Maybe in this judgmental dating world, namely, online dating, Asian guys are not attractive, even to european girls?) . Anyways, I met 5 of them, and 4 girls wanted to have a serious relationship. They told me that they never knew that an Asian guys are so attractive.

Boys, maybe you wanna know further. No single european girls was not satisfied with our sex life. I had some long-term relationships (ie marriage, too). But after the second divorce, I take any sex offer from girls, so I slept with ca 15 girls from Europe. Everyone told me that it was myth that Asian guys were bad in bed. More than a half of them (maybe 60% but I dont wanna bluff) experienced orgasm while the intercourse (not just by touching her xxx, you know what I mean :) )

Conclusion:
-in the daily life, some European girls are attracted to Asian guys (but they do not make a first move, usually). But certainly they like a guy with lots of muscle and 190cm figure. I do not deny that.
-Online dating: disaster! I have never treated like that, lol.

jackyct · Answer

its not about the media i think. its about society still not accepting interracial dating. white women always get shit from others if they're dating outside of their race. thats not really different in europe. i'm from germany and nope Asian guys ain't popular dating wise there either. I DO think tho that europeans have a way more open mind towards these things.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm Asian (Chinese) and I've dated/ hooked up with 60 women and counting, all Caucasian (including German, Swedish, Swiss, Brazilian, Dutch). I'm not ripped, nor the best looking dude. Far from the ugliest though. But I sure as hell aren't the typical Asian, who'd ask questions like this, or do nothing about the problems in my life.
In the general scheme of things, I'd say Europeans are definitely more open to it (Canadians too) than Americans are. Minus Scandinavia, as they're just a bit colder to everyone, and arguably the best looking too.
But seriously. It depends on the person. The smarter a person is, they'll look past prejudice, discrimination and stereotype. And will be attracted to any man that can match that and top it.

Ihav2fart · Answer

When I was at Vegas last year the only Caucasian ladies that were willing to give me the time of day were from Europe, them German girls are soo open minded.

MikeVick4MVP · Answer

amercian women like to pleasured...and you know the steroetype of azns

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i know both european and  American  girls who are interested in  Asian  boys. it depends on the individual and how much they try for what they want.

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