Why is grinding the only thing guys wanna do at the club?

[Anonymous]

Me and my friends were dancing, not even skanky dancing but so many random ass guys kept trying to get us to grind. One guy I probably had to walk away from three times. At one point he grabbed my hips and pulled me against him when he realized I wasn’t going to initiate anything even though I had walked away from his previous short attempts. Then every time I’d start to move away he’d try to pull me back on him. Are guys usually the ones to come up behind girls because I know that I definitely don’t go seeeking out guys to grind on. It seems that random guys think they can just come up behind a girl without asking or invitation and touch her. I mean sometimes it’s obvious via body language that she’s wants to grind but if not why do guys think it’s ok?

[Masker2424]

A lot of men are oblivious and make assumptions. In the club men make more assumptions than Norman and are more willing to make bold moves to secure a potential sex partner. In the absence of good lighting when the music mutes conversation a well endowed male who see’s you as the one may be doing this to lure you out. The options are up to you: bouncer, or put your hands on it and see if it’s worth the effort. In any case until a better looking fish comes along your club experience is going to be like this. May the hunt be ever in your favor.

[djmzes]

Simple

[HearEm]

I don't think its ever okay for someone to assume they can make you do something without you expressing interest. *Especially* if you walked away multiple times, that behavior is super out of line. I'm sorry you had that experience and hopefully its less shitty in the future!

[AmyLuv]

yeah it happens a lot, I usually tell them to back off before I get someone to take care of him. I usually end up getting those guys thrown out by Security, luckily Security doesn't stand pervs 😄

[Agamenon]

But do You like to grind with a Guy? If so, do You prefer buttgrind or frontgrind? If a Guy get hard behind you? Do You mind? Do You enjoy?

[TheBloodyNine]

There are sleazy girls too, maybe not as many, but there are. I can't count the times a drunk girl has grabbed my dick in a club or on a dance floor. It's not right for a man OR woman to do this, and it honestly annoys the fuck out of me. Tell them to fuck off if they want to keep their fingers attached to their hands.

[AngerSquares]

Not all guys do, just the sleezy ones. Then again lots of sleezy guys congregate at clubs like so muck on a dumpster.

[numerouno85]

Love grinding!

[hellacray]

Most guys go to clubs to get freaky and laid.

I'm not sure why you're so surprised.

[wannaplaytoy]

well anything more is a sexual act and you could be charged

[YouDaBest]

those boys are horny bastards

[Anonymous]

Because that's the only reason why they're there.