What's the point of going clubbing?

[Anonymous]

whats the point of going clubbing ladies ? because I don't get it

You want attention ? attention from a bunch of sweaty drunk guys looking for a piece of meat to f*** ? That's the kind of attention you want ?

Or just dance ? so if you're dancing why are you wearing such skimpy clothing ?

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Sersiouly, I want good answers for why girls go ?


If it isn't for being an attention whore, or getting to f*** a guy, then what is it for ?


enjoy the music? then why the slutty dress ?

[Anonymous]

I've never been to the club before in my life, but I am going to start doing it. I want to get out more. Look at it this way, if you are young and hot that is just what you're gonna do. Everyone likes to feel attractive and wanted, you're around good looking people, dancing, having fun letting loose. just because guys WANT to f*** doesn't mean you have to let them. I don't think its smart to look for your next boyfriend in the club, but what is wrong with going out and having fun?if you go into an environment where almost every girl is dressed sexily and looking hot, why would you go wearing a t-shirt and jeans? part of it is competition with other girls. its 2010, people aren't going to be at bingo halls and crocheting lol you might as well get all the fun in now before you get too old and then wish you hadn't been so boring in your youth.

[candygirl54]

Some people are there to find hookups. You have to be very careful, though. Because people get aggressive. Guys grope girls and girls fight other girls or guys over someone hitting on their partner. Couples fight over dancing with other guys or girls. I haven't been to a club in a few years. I like going with my man, my closest friend and family members. If I'm there alone, there's a higher chance that someone will try to dance with me. The only time I would be okay with another guy dancing with me is if it was a guy I knew very well. Same with my man with girls he knew well. It's all about balance and what makes both partners comfortable.

[Anonymous]

although you seem like super angry about this topic and kind mean...

i will say they go exactly for the reasons you have listed. I think its stupid and hate it.

i don't need to dress like a slut or dance like one or be one to meet people or get a guy or get laid. I prefer not acting like I'm 14 anymore and not making out with like 8 guys in a night. I know I have more going for me and like omgg a personality! wow and I'm funny and athletic and I loove to party but not like that.

[Asker]

Finally someone gets it :)

[Opinion Owner]

Ya you seem bitter, but from a girls point of view who doesn't like it either, I don't understand why people can't just go to like bars where you can dance or watch ufc or orr play pool and just all that stuff instead of just a club

[Opinion Owner]

But now I'm the odd one out because most girls like it. I have like a couple friends that only, out of my best friends 2 do and 2 of us don't and it definitely causes friction because we don't care who you dry humped and macked on, we were busy meeting cool guys that like us for who we are as well as how we look

[soccerrun1]

I like your point of view on this, but this guy is a little off. Probably had a girlfriend that was into clubbing and he's the jealous type

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah w/e his issue is isn't the point I was trying to make. but yeah its too much clubbing too often and not real creating of friendships and relationships.

i don't have to dress like a slut to feel good about myself to other girls or guys.

[AussieAussieAussie]

They go to clubs because its fun for them. Just because you can`t get laid or are stuck in a sh*tty relationship doesn't mean you need to insult these girls. Did you write this because you went to the club and got rejected? Calm down and don't hate on the ladies!

[Asker]

Why do the ladies go clubbing is all I want to know ...

They are either attention whores, or sluts, which is it ??

[AussieAussieAussie]

They go to clubs to get drunk and have fun. Same reason that guys go to clubs.

[Asker]

Ok so sluts it is, lol

[yengesi]

Dude, you need to chill! You're starting to scare me.

[Asker]

How am I an enraged abuser? ? I'm asking a simple question, I want a decent answer.

[yengesi]

You're slinging irrational nasty hateful insults about women who exhibit normal behavior, making paranoid jealous accusations, demanding answers to multiple choice questions for which you only offer incriminating choices, and insulting anyone who says something you don't want to hear. Seriously, those are classic signs. I've seen them in action.

[Asker]

Read my update, if they don't go for those reasons, then why do they go ?? I don't understand

face it, they want attention

[yengesi]

Incriminating answers that justify your anger are the only answer's you'll hear. Classic signs.

[Asker]

Attention whores it is then

[Asker]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rGwWxlABYH0&feature=related

look at this and tell me none of those girls are sluts, rofl

[Asker]

Still no comment huh, yeah I know I'm right haha

[BigBallerSodaPop]

Be an enraged abuser if you want. Don't let society hold you back.

[ravingprincess01]

I think everybody craves attention, both men and women But women go to clubs to have fun, listen to good music and enjoy company with friends. Not all women dress skimpily, there are still decent people out there. I go with my friends to unwind after a long week of working hard and we sometimes meet and talk to nice guys. Not all of them are sweaty and drunk and are desperate for sex.

Don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are people who are only looking for a one night stand. But don't generalize women as sluts. Just because they have it, doesn't mean they can't flaunt it.

[Anonymous]

Guys are very wrong when they assume girls are always dressed to impress them. A majority of the time girls are dressed to impress/be the envy of OTHER GIRLS. And when I go out with my girlfriends who also have boyfriends we dance with each other, drink, take care of one another and have a blast. We don't give men who approach the time of day because we are all taken and just want to have a good time! So I really have no idea what the hell you're carrying on about. Your girl is lucky to be rid of you, she dodged a hell of a bullet! In fact now that I think about it she was probably at the club to get the hell away from YOU. Smart lady.

[tigerguy]

Why would you want other girls to envy you, its not like you have to prove who hotter so you can get the guy because you already have a boyfriend, you have nothing to prove, a lovely dress or casual where can still go along way that short skirt, high heels and full on make up

[proudtexasgirl]

Insecurity. There's your answer. They dress that way and behave that way to impress guys or other girls because they do not feel confident in themselves fully dressed and in broad daylight.

[Asker]

And another one gets it! I was losing hope in humanity tbh

[Anonymous]

Lol I know, it's such a CRAZY concept that women might go to clubs to dance, hang out with their girls, and look nice. In fact, local bars will prove this! Why do you think there's a ladies night where women get discounts, but there's never a gentleman's night. It's because the guy go for the girls, and the girls go for the dancing/socializing. So if anyone is being "slutty" its the guys!

Either way, I saw your previous question and you're a psycho. You really are. I've never seen any normal guy get this upset about a girl going to a club. You're gonna be one of the guys that beats their wife for overcooking the chicken. Check yourself into a mental ward.

[Asker]

Lol you just admitted guys go to f*** girls, so why would a girl that's in a relationship go to get attention from such guys ?

and yes because I don't like clubs I'm gonna beat my wife cooking chicken for me, you make no f***ing sense.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol you read only what you want to see. To argue with an idiot is pointless.

[juice1]

i bet your girl go banged by the sweaty drunk dude huh? don't hate playa

[Asker]

Not my girl anymore lol its done, she can f*** all the sweaty drunk retards she wants

[Anonymous]

Few club to just talk. Some club to rub, others to fuck.

[Anonymous]

I feel sorry for your girl lol. You're psychotic.

[Asker]

Yes they go to dance with sweaty drunk guys all over them for their p**** only, and I'm the psychotic one haha

[yengesi]

Seriously man, between this and your earlier question you're exhibiting classic signs of an enraged abuser. Get some help.

[vmw2008]

Agreed!