ok this may be weird but ill tell you, and if you think ima freak oh well,
I personally like to go clubbing because I like to be touched while I dance, its great no string thing. I don't talk to them ever, but its fun. you dance with a guy they touch you feel good, move on. its just the crazy dancing for me. Its great physical contact with no sex, no talking, no awkwardness. I don't ever go in a club unless the guys are 90% hot, and I go with lots of friends even if we get separated afterwards. I'm always very careful not to drink unless I have someone to take care of me and I never ever go home with someone other than the person who got me over. Safety first! I'm a virgin and want to keep that for a little while :)...
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It's crap lol. Seriously, where I live there is only one club that is good to go to and it would get sooo boring to go there every friday and saturday night. So I don't go clubbing. I don't know many people that do-we usually go to the pub,have a BBQ or just go to house parties or something like that. Clubbing is expensive and really crowded (i'm claustrophobic so I can't stand that). And everyone gets sweaty which I hate lol. And there are some horrible pervs in the clubs!
you are probably an introvert, so you are more comfortable in small groups/alone than being in large groups and such.
check this link out, it explains a little on that matter:
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but clubbing can be fun and meeting new people is always a pleasure for me, also getting drunk or dancing, having fun, maybe get laid by the end of the night.
Its a lifestyle choice some people adopt, not everyone is into clubbing you know, some people find it scary like I know it is for me at first when you first get in the club and ur alone but that's what friends are for
If I can remember correctly, guys liked it for the idea of grinding with a girl and physically touching her without sex. In other words it's like having physical fun, that you couldn't otherwise have unless you were in a relationship with her or heavy flirting. Only in this case, you don't need to talk much. It's quicker.
Girls liked it... simply to dance, because everyone else is/was doing it, or because they liked the attention from boys it brings.
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it's easier to meet new people.. I mean not that you can have long concersations because of the noise, but it's good to ask for girl's numbers or to kiss them at least for me! I like to go to clubs only when I'm drunk eheh.. try it a little tipsy one time or another and you'll enjoy more
I don't know. I don't get it either.
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