How can I approach a girl shopping with her mom?

[Anonymous]

This is a tough one. I'm 21, and I always find girls around my age shopping with their mother. Mostly in grocery stores. I'll make eye contact with her, smile...but have no clue how to sau hi as she stands next to her mom! Lol please help!

[LittleMissGriff]

Any guy willing to approach us with our MOM around? Get immediate Kudos. Guys who are only interested in getting a girl in the sack is not going to face the trouble that comes with a mother, so you've got an immediate edge in the 'good reputation' department.

Being direct but respectful will get you a long way. Walking up and saying "Hey, I saw you over here and I thought 'I just have to get that girls name' so, I'm ---. Nice to meet you." If she sees flattered but embarrassed - dude, she's with her MOM - you're doing fine. Unless she invites you with her, keep it short, but give her your number (Or get hers).

I guarantee, after you leave? She and her mother will spend the rest of the day talking about nothing but you. Parental approval makes life so much easier.

[Lexiee]

First of all: Just don't haha.

When you really really like a girl, try to read what her mom is about. I know that my mom would find it cute when a guy comes up to me in a grocery store. Some moms are very protective.

But, I would not be very sensible when you go talk to her when her mom stands right next to her. It makes her a bit uncomfortable, I think.

If this all doesn't work. Stop trying to hit on girls in such places like a store. It's a public place, especially when you don't really know her.

:)

[Asker]

Just dont? Lol It sucks because I see I'll find girls J would normally approach alone, but I guess I would feel uncomfortable too talking to her in front of mom. Lol...but there's gotta be a way! In the most respectful and polite manner of course. :)

[Lexiee]

Ok, you're right, Sorry 'just don't' wasn't really good advice... It's just a challenge, that's all. :)

[HopeIessRomantik]

Hm, when I shop with my mom, she actually finds it endearing if a friend of mine would greet not just me, but also her. I agree with my mom's view that by acknowledging the mom's presence, you are being respectful as well as being friendly -- brownie points if you like the girl, the mom would love you already!

[Asker]

Thats kinda what I was thinking too...if I get through meeting at the same time I meet her mom...meeting her parents later on would be a lot easier.

[MrEM4N]

Just do it. Mom's are easy to handle. Because they've already gone through the motions and know all the tricks in the book, don't bother trying to play any games because she'll know it and immediately dislike you. Appear nice, sweet and sincere and you'll have the Mom wanting your number even if the daughter won't. You want to look confident and shy at the same time. It's endearing and chicks eat it up. As in you need to have the confidence to walk up to her and strike up a conversation but do some shy smiling and make her feel like the most beautiful women in the store. Stuff like "Excuse me, I don't usually say stuff like this but I think you're very pretty. Would you want to grab coffee sometime?" might work if you can pull it off by saying it the right way.

[MrEM4N]

Maybe invite her "sister to come along, too" You can also strike up a conversation about food. IF theyre at the produce section walk up to the cantaloupes she's looking at and ask her how you know which ones are good. That an easy icebreaker.

[Jpartist]

I say go hit on the mom first just to get a laugh out of them!

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[meeko]

Notice the mom! Say "hi" to both of them. That shows both of them you're respectable and a good guy. Plus, its sweet. Or just wait till the mom sort of floats away, and the girl is sort of off to the side.

[Snugler1]

I think you should say hello to her Mom also then talk to the girl. The Mom will feel better also and maybe be impressed her daughter is being talked to.

[Ms0know0it0all]

Complete agreement with LittleMissGriff. You will DEFINITELY be well liked by both her and her mom.

[Anonymous]

Why do you always have to approach women, can't we just have some quality time with our family without men bothering us every 5 minutes.

[Asker]

I guess it's because women never approach us...I guess I'll just approach your mom then.

[sb719]

you want a good impression on both the girl and her mom. be nice and friendly to both.