I’m 18 and a month ago i met a guy in my equestrian club. He is probably the hottest guy here, tall, athletic and a gorgeous face. a lot of chicks are into him. I hate concurrence so I never intended to flirt with him especially that I’m not super pretty. I’m told that I’m cute but I know that he can get girls with a solid 10 face while I’m just merely above average. I have a lot of friends because I’m funny and making peoples laugh is my passion ( i even disguised my self as a clown during an event for children) and the hot guy was present. One time I made this guy laughing so hard when we were alone that he was about to piss in his pant, and just after that he suddenly kissed me in the cheek before hugging me and he told me that he think about me everytime he laugh or that he just have to remember me and my jokes to start laughing. I thought it was a friendly compliment till he confessed that he has a crush on me. I truly thought that he was joking till he told me that he was serious, and that he couldn’t resist me because of ( my sense of humor), and that I was pretty cute. So he asked me to go out with him, and i replied that it was too sudden because I need time. I was so shocked, I mean.. he is hot, nice and sweet but I never thought in my life that I would attract him, since he’s so hot. I always acted like a silly goofy girl in front of him and i never intented to seduce him the way I would if i tried, so I doubt that he was attracted to me because of charm or something like that, since a lot of prettier girl have pics of him on their phone. So is it true that he can fall in love with me just because I’m funny?
Does being funny truly make you attractive? especially in my case?
No. Anybody can be funny, you just know how to make somebody laugh. It's not the basis of attraction, but it can make somebody happy and desire to get to know you. The more they get to know you, they have a choice to see if you share the same values and desires or not. And if you do, THEN it can make you attractive to that person. Stop going by his looks. You're not ready for that kind of relationship and he should respect that. You never seduced him, you were just being yourself. He overall sounds like a genuine guy. Though I think that he was a bit too touchy-feely and it needs to be kept a minimum. But overall, if he said that and he means it, then he meant it. Its up to you to believe it.
Yes! You were already pretty enough, but being funny just caught his attention enough to notice you. Also, it means he doesn't justblike you because you're arm candy, but because he actually likes YOU. Just stop being so scared and enjoy the start of your own personal fairy tale :)
Even as visual as men admittedly are, most decent guys aren't going to date or be in a relationship with a girl just because of her looks (of course, not all guys are decent). Personality is important too, especially in the long term.
The effects of a girl's beauty only lasts a few months before her personality becomes what you "see" of her, and if you don't like her personality, her looks aren't enough to keep things together.
I would much rather a girl who is a 5 in looks and a 9 in personality than the opposite.
It’s possible. by the way, you have nothing to be concerned about in the looks department. You look great, don’t have suck low self confidence. Any guy would be lucky to have someone like you, and personally I love a girl that can make me laugh. Honestly I’d take a 5 with a great personality over a 10 with a horrible one. So go keep being yourself, see where this relationship might go. But do be cautious, some guys are creeps.
No, he doesn't like you because you are funny. Being funny is one of the things he really likes about you. He probably also liked it that that you acted normal, and was just plain yourself, and were not out to get him. Of course go out with him, but take it slow, to see where you are going and so you don't get too caught up in how cute he is, that you're not using your head. Good luck.
No, depends on whether you are being laughed at or laughed with. If you are a being laughed at, it's either because 1. you are an idiot or 2. something terrible has happened to you in a comical way.
But as a point of attraction? Perhaps in a friendly way, not a romantic or sexual way.
Personality is a big turn on and you are attractive so why are you putting. ypurself down? Looks aren't everything when it. comes to falling. for someone , a person can be beautiful on the outside but if they have a shitty personality they aren't as beautiful anymore , a person who is attractive and has a great personality becomes more attractive. , when we meet someone that is attractive and has a great personality what more. could someone ask for?
I hope that young women can stop comparing themselves to others and rating out if 10. There are all kinds of young women I find completely stunning that others don't find as attractive. It is all preference. If he seems to like you, go for it. What do you have to lose?
You're thinking too deeply into this. If he asks you out and finds you funny and you find him attractive and (hot) then just say, "Yes" and have fun. Whatever will happen will happen. It's a risk, yes, but one of many you'll have to take in life.
Sure, it's never negative to have a good sense of humor. Always adds a good bit of personality. As long as you aren't goofy like, 90% of the time. That gets old very fast.
Why reject him? That kiss and confession should have shown you that he has a good personality, beside good looks. He is attracted by your personality, that's pretty normal. Could you please stop thinking only about his looks?
If we like you we like you it doesn't take jokes to make a dide like you and your personality is something we like more then looks just cause girls are prettier as u say doesn't mean they have shit personalitys lol
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