I hardly know him, so why can't I stop thinking about him?

[A1iice]

So I've just gotten a new job and one of the guys that already works there seems pretty cute. I've spoken to him a few times, but I hardly know him, but then I find myself going home and all I can think about is him, I feel stupid, because like I said, I barely know this guy, so what the hell is going on?

[arsenal25]

haha you like a guy. that is how you feel when you have a crush or like someone. lust too. it's totally normal, everyone feels that way when you are attracted to someone, or there is something about that person that draws you to them. infatuation

[A1iice]

It's not that I haven't ever had a crush on someone before, sure I know what a crush is, it's just my previous 'crushes' have always grown over time you know? I've always known the guy first, we have been friends etc, but with this guy, I know nothing about and yet I can't seem to get him out of my head, I mean you can't seriously have a crush on someone you know nothing about right? that's just crazy?

[arsenal25]

lol no it is still a crush. that is why they are crushes we don't know much about the guy but just can't get them out of our head. I know I have felt like that and many of my girlfriends, its normal.

[A1iice]

I think maybe, I'm looking way too deeply into things. I'll just see how things go, get to know him and see what happens.

[arsenal25]

ofcourse, once you get to know him more and more this either will go away or you get sucked in to liking him way more lol

[BackAgain]

I'm having that problem now but with 2 guys in my class, it's his looks or something intriguing that's messing with your head!

[thelaziestKitty]

A1iice and _insert_name_ sitting in a tree, k-i-s-s-i-n-g...

You've got a huge crush on him!

[Anonymous]

You're lonely so you are getting delusional and want to have a point where you can have a feeling of belonging and he seems adequate for that job. Desire, desire, desire...

[JayNick]

This is common, its just your mind saying DAMN! he's cute, and you want to "bone him" GET TO KNOW HIM, why not? Utilitarianism, look it up, opposite of love

[ProLoveGirl]

Maybe you were married to him in a previous life.

[A1iice]

What? hahaha.

[Laurie182]

Its lust not love