This summer me and this guy I really liked before starting talking again. We never got the chance to date before cos of college, but he hit me back up again this summer. But he is younger than me and still in college, so I decided not to start dating him. I also found he has lots of lady friends on social media who he flirts with in the comments. But me and him had so so much in common, I liked him so much - I liked him more than I had liked my ex boyfriend in the early stages. He was keen to go on dates and we spoke a lot, but he was also inconsistent and took ages to respond (which annoyed me). Anyway, I saw his social media and how he's friends and flirts with lots of women so I decided that we not date right now and he accepted this and said he didn't want long distance anyway (cuz he was going back to college) but he joked we'd be together in the following years.
That was back in the summer and I can't stop thinking about him and stalking his page even tho he doesn't talk to me. I can't stop stalking the girls he is hanging out with cuz they post him a lot and he comments on their photos a lot. It's weird how obsessed I am, I've not been like this before. i'm pretty sure he's having relations with all these girls at college but I can't be sure. I have nothing going on in my own life at the min I'm searching for a job so have spare time. I find myself posting for his sake and for him to message me but he never does, I still have him on social media. It's causing me frustration. What do I do?
