Guy ghosted me, but I can't stop thinking about him. Would it seem desperate if I texted him?

mica3269
I approached this guy and gave him my number. We started texting some but it wasn't everyday. Sometimes it would be several days without texting but when we would text the conversation seemed to flow pretty naturally. We had only been texting for less than a month before I moved. I really wanted to hang out with this guy before I moved. One night when we were texting he said that he would come over to my place after hanging out with his friends. I felt that this was going to be the only opportunity to hang out with him so even though it was really late I kept telling him that he should come over. For some reason I kind of misread the situation and I'm pretty sure he was expecting something to happen, but I am a virgin and wasn't ready. I think I was sending him mixed signals though because I basically invited him over and it was really late but all we ended up doing was cuddling/spooning. The next day we talked some and then I suggested that we hang out one more time the night before I left. So we kind of had plans but nothing too official. On that night I texted him asking if he still wanted to hang out but he never texted me back (and still has not). It's been a couple of weeks now and I can't stop thinking about him. I know I should probably just forget about him but I can't for some reason. I kind of want to text him to see what happened but I don't know if I should and if I do I don't know what to say exactly.
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The weird thing though is that he never really tried to make a move. He maybe kind of hinted but he didn't even try to kiss me.
Guy ghosted me, but I can't stop thinking about him. Would it seem desperate if I texted him?
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