Let this guy go, my ex did the exact same thing to me. He had me blocked from his phone after he would call me or show up at my job crying and begging me back but he has a girl friend in which they are engaged but he still tells me he loves me and blah blah blah, I think you get what I am saying. I still have a hard time but it makes me think twice before I pick up my phone and call him. Some people will never be what you want them to be and look at it this way, he tells you he loves and misses you but yet he tells his girlfriend what she wants to hear too which is really pathetic. My exes girl friend made him block me and on top of that not only he screwed with my head he also talked to me like crap. This guy sounds like he is an unstable person. Let him be his new girlfriend problem. As much as you love him he doesn't love you the same and you got to look at it that way. Next time he calls be nice to him and tell him that he is not going to give you want you need from him and you refuse to be a side line girl. And if you guys ever got back together I think it would be hard to forget the past.
did you nag him all the time?or you do thing that he dun like? if yes...he dun wanna you keep contact him bcos you nagging him all the time using call...(stop it if you do that...soon or later he will disappear if you chasing him like ghost...but if you nice to him...didnt nag didn't do anything that he dun like... then only one word l can tell...HE NEVER truly into you or love u...bcos no man will change tel no if he love that woman... and no one will date other woman if he love his gf..unless you and him already broke up...
Kick him off and dump him, this man is suck if he play game v u...
Dun let man treat you as 2nd best or spare tayar..
tell him...if you dun love me..move on...
see what his reaction...if he apologize and come back to u..depend if you wanna give chance...if no...let go..n call him to FXXX OFF ! you desire to have a better man to love u!
Yikes! I thought my ex was bad...Im going through the same thing, but not as bad. I say let it go, the fact that you don't have his number anymore and he calls you blocked...is crazy. You need to let him go completely...NO CONTACT. I think that will be the only way you will fig out what he truly once. I'm guessing when he "pops in once every couple weeks" that means for sex? If so that's def not good! You deserve better than this! Walk away, show him your not waiting for him. Best Wishes!
Basically he is only keeping in contact with you incase this relationship he is in doesn't work out and he wants to get laid when he's single again. He's not worth your time, forget it.
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