How would you define "seduce"? I tend to think almost all my relationships involved seduction on both sides, maybe sometimes more one than the other.
For example, I think I seduced my wife. I won her over by jamming an emergency stop button on an elevator and kissing her in that moment on our first date. Yet I think she seduced me a bit before that because she was always flirty and touching and she actually kissed me on the lips (just a peck) one time while we were dancing, and that's what prompted to ask her out on that date.
Well, I'm trying to see what others call "seduction" because I don't quite know what to define it as myself. Figured it'd be interesting fo find out what the rest of the world is doing on this topic. Yours is sweet, thank you for responding.
I tend to think no one would ever have sex without some element of seduction. If people think of it as a most "skillful" kind of approach of enticing someone sexually, then I'm not sure. I'm not sure if I was ever very skillful that way so much as just bold. :-D
I tend to think of any sort of thing which either deliberately or inadvertently entices someone from a sexual standpoint, like touching them in a certain way that expresses desire, or speaking to them in a certain way, etc.
Maybe if it's considered something very deliberate and conscious, it might be a bit hazy in my case. If I touched a woman or kissed her or danced with her, it was more an expression of my own desire rather than some cleverly formulated attempt at winning her over (though there might have some small degree of that going on in my head).
I've never seduced anyone, but I have read quite a lot of romantic books to feel the experience the main character is going through. I gotta say, when ur hormones are on fire, you won't be able to stop.
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