Is it OK to be a cock tease?

[Anonymous]

Is it OK for me to sexually tease him and then leave him with almost nothing? Obviously we’re gonna have sex some point I am just not sure if I’m ready and I know I teased him, which was not my intention but one thing leads to another and we’ve gone further and I’d like to go.

[ZeonWolf69]

Some men enjoy it along with some women. But in this case it is not intentional.
If you are not ready than you are not ready for sex but if you feel bad you can always give him a handjob or blowjob and finish him off.
As long as he knows the reason behind not having sex and leaving him teased than shouldn't be terrible but just dont do it all the time. Finish him off a couple times

[Chilly23]

Hell to the nah. If you tease guy without giving him anything that's a major issue.

1st of all, "blue balls".
Balls hurt like crazy when guy gets turned on and don't ejeculate.

2nd, it's like giving dog a food when he's hungry and then take it away from him.

That's really not cool, and you only can tease him if you are willing to have sex with him after that.

[Anonymous]

Don't do it. Guys really don't like that! It's fine to tease them a little, as long as it eventually leads to something.

But constantly cock teasing a guy will frustrate him and make him lose interest in you if keep it up too much

[WhiteShoulder]

You raise a good point. You don't want to do it to a guy you really like.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly. A little teasing is fine, but don't push them too far unless you plan to do something about it. Especially if it's a guy you like

[WhiteShoulder]

Totally. If it's just a guy you're hooking up with for a one time thing, that's a diff story...

Even then, leave yourself an escape route just in case. Or do it online where you're totally safe.

[Anonymous]

I suggest you don't because someone might either force himself on you or cut off any contact.

[Rfvgtyh]

I don’t think guys like it. Just from what I’ve heard and seen

[20yearsolder]

Sure, it's okay. You'll just go home and jerk off or find somebody else to finish it. if you have already established it beforehand that you weren't going to have sex yet, then he knows what he's getting into. but if you are intentionally getting his dick hard just because it's something you enjoy. It's not okay

[Sevenpointfive]

no one likes a cock tease unless you know you're getting it later. i think there is a big difference in a cock tease and a tease. i don't mind teases at all. i find that fun.

[Rfvgtyh]

What is the difference

[englisc]

If the guy hasn't had sex with you yet all this will do is frustrate him. Do it multiple times and he'll probably leave.

[WhiteShoulder]

Absolutely. I do it from time to time when I feel the urge.

[WhiteShoulder]

I don't do it irl anymore. Only online.

[abc3643]

Not if you want to get raped.

Teasing = #1 way to create rapists.

[R4vedave]

I mean so long as he's okay with the bit of frustration haha.

[esotericstory]

Every time girls did this to me and left me with nothing I told them I didn't like it, they kept doing it and stopped talking to them.

[bangyourhead]

It's ok. Hopefully you're communicating to him so he doesn't get mixed signals.

[jocr1993]

You're Cruel! No really, some teasing is lovely, but don't over do it 😉

[Anonymous]

Don't tease... that is a retarded mind game... many people who do this are called "Rape Victims"

[Vivekkguptaa]

That's amazing... I do love teasing

[sheepdip]

Don't be surprised if he calls you out