So, I’m laying in the living room with my boyfriend when I suddenly get a message on Facebook from a coworker that sent a “😍” face. what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I work at a hotel that’s connected to a casino, and the guy that sent me “😍” face works as a security guard at the casino. We have greeted each other in passing but never conversed. He added me on fb a few days ago and I accepted, thinking not much of it. Well tonight my boyfriend and I were chilling in the same room when he sends me a heart eyed emoji... I started to tell my boyfriend about it but then something stopped me from doing it. Should I show my boyfriend the message and tell him about it? Should I respond that I have a boyfriend? Or should I delete the message and pretend it never exist and avoid this guy at all cause? Help!

Tell your boyfriend about it

Reply to his message, but remain platonic.

Ignore the message and pretend it never happened

Updates

+1 y

I couldn’t help it. I had to tell my boyfriend, I’m not use to not telling him everything. His reply was “wow...” (he shook his head) “those motherf***ers” then he shook his head again. My boyfriend gambles at that casino pretty often so he was a little put off but quickly dismissed the situation and we started talking about other stuff. Glad I got it off my chest! Thanks guys :)

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't reply tell. your boyfriend , he might make something of it. But dont reply back to the guy too. If you do you will just encourage him to send more messages like that.

I would just ignore it, delete it and if he keeps on doing things. Let your boyfriend know or block and delete the guy

[chriscdi]

well telling him would show you aren't hiding anything from him and he would trust you more but can cause problems with your co worker, not telling him will avoid this problem but if he sees it, he might suspect something that isn't happening and thats never good.

[BitterSweetApplePie]

I think you should let Security Guy down by letting him know that you have a boyfriend and show your boyfriend, after you've sent the message. Just so he doesn't get all weird.

[PaulValentin]

Honestly, just tell your boyfriend before he accidentally runs into itband thinks wrongly of you. Then I'd probs just view and ignore that message ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Asker]

Did you read the update? I told him literally 30 minutes after posting the question.

[PaulValentin]

Ah yes, that's good... I'm kinda new here, I often miss the updates as they are below the poll 😂 Glad it worked out!

[Thatsamazing]

You should
1) stop pretending that stupid shit that doesn't matter is anything other than stupid shit that doesn't matter, when it is indeed simply stupid shit that doesn't matter, and
2) tell him that emojis are stupid.

[Texaskid1]

Make your boyfriend and the other guy fight to the death. Whoever wins gets to keep you.

At least until some other guy comes along 😄😄😄

[Asker]

K...

[Texaskid1]

Just do it.

[Nahid1707]

You don’t have to reply to them and ignore it
You can delete the message and some girls Block the guy

[domi25]

I think the best option is to let your coworker that you have a boyfriend and you don't want nothing with hem, and if you asking "should I tell my boyfriend?" That's up to you! Really doesn't matter.

[scooogy]

Answer with a pic of your boyfriend hugging you tightly.

[WhiteShoulder]

I voted B