How to tell if a girl is trying to make you jealous?

[Anonymous]

And try to make her own boyfriend jealous of you.

so what is it?

[oneforthetruth]

I have already answered this kind of question somewhere else, but here goes.

Guys make girls jealous by being up front, they flirt with all the girls and basically what they are saying is, you're gonna have to work for me (you might disagree, being male, but in my experience as a female, this is when I become jealous, even though I am not a 'jealous' person, but if I liked a guy and he was talking to everyone else, but me, I would feel envious, definitley.

Girls, however, will tend to pick one guy they get on with, but have no interest in, to flirt outrageously with them, to show the actual guy the like, what this other guy might have.

If she's got a boyfriend, and she is flirting with you, then sure certain she is making her boyfriend jealous, and not trying to make you jealous.

Just like if she does like you, but is with someone, she won't have to make you jealous, because she'll take for granted that you are.

Girls are very, very manipulative when it comes to things like this, and actually it is the girls who can't manipulated properly that with their own boyfriend, they try and make some other guy jealous, because the likely hood is, that just not being with her, and seeing her with her boyfriend, is more then likely to make him a little envious.

I think people lie when they say, nah don't bother me, she's hot but, what can ya do. Simple fact is, if you've never thought, why's he with her and not me, then I would say you lie. Everyone has had this thought at some point, even if they made it sound in gest.

If there was a guy I liked, and I wasn't sure he liked me, but I wanted him to notice me, I wouldn't go out of my way to make him 'jealous' I'd make him notice me, in a way that might provoke him to engage in conversation, and making him want to be apart of the fun that's going on here, and leave the group of boring girls that are just sucking up to him to get his goods.

The one that stands out usually gets the prize...and this I have found to be true in most cases where I have gotten the guy I liked.

[Konfuzed12]

What do you suggest a guy does if his ex girlfriend is in a rebound relationship and trying to make him jealous? Do you suggest he simply ignores it and don't act like it phases him? we are friends on all social media and she just post the littlest things that make my skin crawl which I could be an asshole and like them but the thing is her boyfriend told her to block me from everything but she wanted to keep being friends behind his back

[wootamandawoot41]

@Konfuzed12 relax

[16Swordfish]

@wootamandawoot41 No! Hell no!! Women are not prizes, rather a list of options!

[justagirl42]

well she'll kinda play you two against each other. she'll tell you all the stuff he says to her good/bad to see how you react(and she'll do the same with him), she'll talk about him to you and you to him to get a reaction. she'll flirt with you while he watches knowing he's there and do the same to you. chat you up on facebook knowing he'll see it and post sweet stuff about him on facebook knowing you'll see it. stuff like that...

[Lisa123]

Guys make girls jealous by being up front, they flirt with all the girls and basically what they are saying is, you're gonna have to work for me (you might disagree, being male, but in my experience as a female, this is when I become jealous, even though I am not a 'jealous' person, but if I liked a guy and he was talking to everyone else, but me, I would feel envious, definitley.

[DonMichelle]

- Telling you she thinks other lads are attractive

- Specifying which lads are attractive

- Telling you lads have asked her for her number

- That they've asked her out on a date

- Mentioning previous 'great' sexual encounters with other lads

- Comparing you to another lad, telling you to be more like him

- ''Mmmmmmmm look at the muscles on him''

The list could continue forever... girls jealosy games are laughably transparent. Lads who fall for them are blinded by thier own feelings for that girl. Whenever I had these 'little tricks' pulled on me I'd laugh, encourage them to tell me more of my flaws, tell me how I should be more like certain other lads, ask them to write me a list of these attractive boys so I could model myself on them etc, basically agree with what she's saying and they'll soon stop or she could become annyoed (especially if she's manipulative and likes to know she's wanted, an attention vampire so to speak) in which case it's maybe better to play along with some of her jealousy efforts every once in a while, let her think it bothers you even though it doesn't. Manipulate her by letting her think she's manipulating you... but do you really want to have a relationship with a girl who does these things? I've treated girls VERY, VERY badly in the past because they've tried to make me jealous, I see it as an insult. They're making a fool out of you just so they have the upperhand... not a chance!

Manipulate... don't be manipulated in a realtionship like this. Personally I avoid relationships like this altogether because it saves me having to be cruel to the girl, end up hated by her when her tricks backfire! You asked for examples of jealousy... I gave you the full f***ing package mate, enjoy :)

[aikidy]

she is with you, but she acts slutty with other guys and get too close to them while in conversation and maybe even flirt with them

[lilmzkatey]

They brag about other guys lol I should know. I do it a lot ( well I try) haha

[wootamandawoot41]

relax kid

[16Swordfish]

@wootamandawoot41 You better relax yourself before a smack you out cold with my 8 inch baton.

[Dhi99]

I was talking to this girl on the phone and suddenly out of the blue she says “I have a boyfriend “

I responded by saying that “ I didn't ask you for a date”

She said “what?”

What do you think of her reaction?

[mokaladybuggie]

if you felt it then it's probably true