How would you act if a guy liked you but started dating another girl?

[Anonymous]

Girls how would you act... If a guy you know likes you he's told you and even flirted with you.. But he starts dating another girl..

This is both if you like him a little or alot...

I can guess if you didn't like him you wouldn't care..

But even on that have you ever stared to like a guy you know likes you because he starts ignoring you for another girl?

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+1 y

Let me add this..

If he made sure he told your bff he still liked you a lot but was getting up set and was about to give up on you completely... And your Bff told him not to give up on you.. He said he was upset because you never seemed to want to go on dates so her friend said he should date another girl it "wouldnt hurt"


I still care a lot about her but feel she's stoped liking me.. Or may have never did :( so my body and mind says push away so I don't make a fool of myself..

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+1 y

Even though my heart says I not only like her I may love her...



But if she doesn't like me at all... I don't want to make a fool of myself..

Id rather just be friends then try to pursue somthing that may not be there..


But I,cant seem to act normal around her so that's why I feel like giving up.. And be her friend... Never to feel this way about her again..

And she hasn't shown much intrest in me for awhile.. At least what intrest I can be sure she likes me from.. She did

[miss_headphones]

Okay, first off...it's a terrible idea to start dating another girl in the hopes of attracting the attention of the girl you initially liked. Especially if you had any reason to suspect that she liked you back. So I hope this isn't what you meant, or what you're doing! (Just in case.)

If I didn't like him, but he was making it obvious that he was ignoring me for another girl, then I would think he was acting a bit childish and I would ignore him. If he wasn't making it obvious that he wanted me to notice him and his new girlfriend then I would probably not mind too much. I would think it's cute that he found someone.

If I liked him, and he started dating someone else? Well that's a different story. If he was obviously trying to make me jealous I would probably be a bit hurt (or a lot, depending on how much I liked him). I would think it slightly callous that he would behave so antagonistically and therefore, I would do my best to keep out of his way; and if I did happen to see him, I would try to ignore him. If I could tell that he wasn't going out of his way to make me jealous, and he was just happy with his new girl...then I would hate to do it but I would have to suck it up. I am always happy for people when they find someone to care about that cares about them, but in the time it takes to get over it, I would probably ignore him. Not to be mean, simply to feel better about it internally. Especially since him dating someone else means that I probably didn't get up the courage to do anything significant when he said he liked me.

This actually happened to me recently. It sucked, but if he's happy with his new girl then I'm happy for him. I got the feeling he was trying to make me jealous though, which didn't fly in my books - moreso because I had a good reason not to reciprocate his flirting just yet.

In any case, I wish you good luck in whatever your situation may be! =)

[Asker]

First I'm not thinking of doing it to make her jealious..

She has resently stoped showing signs she likes me..

She may just be shy..

I told her friend I felt like giving up on her.. But still be her friend..

I was told not to lock my heart to her..

So I told her friend "i only date one girl at a time and she has stopped going... Her responds was "date another girl it wouldn't hurt"

So its a mixed awnser from her friend.. I don't want to hurt her feelings if she likes me back but is shy..

[miss_headphones]

Well if this girl liked you too, I am not certain why her friend would tell you it is okay to date someone else. To me, that is a dealbreaker. Either that friend doesn't know what she's talking about, or the girl doesn't really have feelings anymore. If she stopped liking you, then I am not certain that you dating someone is going to make her like you again. I don't know what you can do if she still likes you, save ending things with the other girl and starting with her if you still like her more.

[Asker]

Ok I'm a little confused on your last sentence please.explain what you ment..

Also if I date another girl.and I'm still saying if... It wouldn't be for any reason other then dating her... Not to make the girl I like right now get jelious or try to get her to notice me..

[miss_headphones]

I apologize; the way you talk it's as if you would still rather date the first girl, and not the one you would figuratively date otherwise. If you feel like you really like the second girl more, and you want to date her, then go for it. If you do that, there is no getting around hurting the first if she likes you, it's just how it is. It's commendable that you don't want to hurt her feelings though! If she gets hurt, she'll be hurt. But life goes on and she will feel better eventually.

[anita0191]

I would be so hurt and upset. I would think I wasn't good enough for him and why would he bother telling me he liked me if he was just going to go out with another girl. If I didn't care I'd probably still question why he would have bothered telling me that he liked me.

[missjenny95]

It hurts a lot like getting punch at the chest area. Saw picture of this guy I thought likes me with this other girl, they probably are something. I can't help but feeling like I was used back then with him doing all the flirting back and forth. No I'm feeling throwing up

[Katyperry]

upset,but can't impose to someone if that's what he want then definitely I will move on and forget him.

[Corrupt_Others]

This has happened. I think he doesn't like me all that much then. I would ignore him, and try to move on.

[anita0191]

have you tried talking to her about all of this?

[Asker]

Sorta...

But I haven't given up on her yet or asked another girl out...

So I haven't said everything to her.. If I decide to give up completely id say somthing to her directly..

[anita0191]

maybe try again and ask her directly if she can see you two going anywhere? I'm sure that will clear up a lot