What trait is more admirable in a person: kindness, humor, or a strong character?

[Anonymous]

like is being funny more of a deal breaker? Or kind?
And if u could choose only one thing for your SO to be what would it be?
Ik it's kinda a hard choice but please answer

Kindness

A good sense of humor

A strong character (courage, integrity etc)

[SequentialDrop]

I think people like to be treated kind but some lucky people that are attractive across many areas can get bored of being reminded ALL THE TIME that they're attractive. That compliment shower breeds feelings of many other Comments to be redundanct, and even worse I think it can make one unappreciative of positive feedback altogether. HUMOR on the other hand is powerful if used correctly. There's a reason laugher is often called "the best MEDICINE"... Other than that I don't know. Hope I helped.

[MCheetah]

All three are admirable qualities. I'd say kindness is the hardest though, so I choose that. In such a messed up world, kindness is the hardest to be. Bravery and integrity would be second, and it's a VERY close second. But you can have an "inner code" and still be an evil or selfish person, which is why I put it second.

[hannahjo022]

Kindness. I've dated too many "nice" guys who ended up being true jerks. I just want to date a guy who won't play games, string me along, and ghost me! I want a guy to be kind to me, honest, tell me what exactly they are looking for, and if they actually want to date me. I like a guy who has a good sense of humor since I am silly and a playful person.

[Account]

I have a thing about altruism. I also like it when their actions follow their words, it shows bravery and integrity. I can't stand cowards. Never have, never will.

[pjf1958]

A strong character definitely. You want consistency in the people you depend on.

[ohshee]

Play asking all three of those you answered your own question that's why you need to be patient because there are guys out there with all of those qualities and those are the fun guys to be around be patient

[Asker]

Very true, this was more of a 'what if' question than a 'which one should i be' question :)

[ohshee]

I would want you to be kind

[TurboKid]

Strength for me. I think it's the most exceptional quality. It's also my wife's strength (including maturity, which I lump into strength) that I admire most about her, although she's also very funny and kind.

[TurboKid]

I also think it's hard to tell if people are truly kind or pretending to be if they're very weak-minded. They might just act nice to people and tell them things they want to hear out of a fear of conflict. With a strong one who isn't afraid to speak his/her mind, you know they're sincere when they're kind.

[TurboKid]

Also, weak-minded people tend to impose heavy costs on others around them. They get stressed and upset and offended very easily, and often create a lot of drama. Even if they have a heart of gold filled with good intentions, they can impose costs on others that outweigh the benefits of their kindness.

[Mofunfour20]

It depends on the gender because women want to feel protected when with men. Men want respect from women so this question lacks the scope of what men want compared to what women want. We are not the same

[TwistedTube]

I mean, since you specifically use the word admirable, it will have to be a strong character. almost people is kind, almost everyone people has a great sense of humor. but not everyone has a strong character.

[Éhmîë]

U can be kind enough to be funny lol. But I really admire people of such nature; kind with a gud sense of humor n a little strong character to back it up. It's really a nice question. thanks 4 asking

[Ayanna240]

people do not fall in love with character. they fall in love with personality. I think everyone appreciates kind people but it does not necessarily mean that all of us will fall in love with someone simply because they are kind

[tatianamay]

Kindness is not found in many these days. A very admirable yet very rare trait

[Gray-Wisp]

It's not hard at all. I don't care how "kind" as in polite or funny she is when she is lying to me and having sex with someone else. A strong character, hands down.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Kindness.

I view this as the main thing TBH.

[daryan12s]

Every time I am convinced of one thing: the smarter a person is, the better his sense of humor. And if a person has a good sense of humor, then he is very smart and will be able to maintain simple conversations.

[exitseven]

I think if a person had a strong character the other two are a given.

[Anonymous]

Kindness is rather admirable. It's easy to be mean and hateful, but a lot harder to look past differences and be kind.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Give me kindness, The circus exists and strong characters are built with time

[EnglishEuropean]

Character above everything. Someone who won't flake out on you.

[misslalindy]

A strong character is the most admirable thing a person can possess.

[KinkyLife]

I think girls look for guys who know how to slap them at the right time.

[Asker]

Do u mean just be brave enough to tell them if they have a problem and communicate with them?

[KinkyLife]

No brave enough to control them but not to manipulate them.

He leads and with ease

[KinkyLife]

He says what's on his mind without having a thing thought..

[KinkyLife]

Single*

[Asker]

So u think girls look for a man to b in control of the relationship?

[KinkyLife]

Yup and more.

He has to be dominant in bed.

[KinkyLife]

Low key they like to be on the side not his main goal

[Asker]

Well I'm a girl and I don't think most of the things u just stated so yea haha I guess it depends on the girl

[KinkyLife]

You're under 18, kiddo..

When you grow up you will change to a mature woman and understand.

[Kha0tiic_xo]

Fort me they need to have a great sense of humor!

[dray995]

All 3 of those things

[Iron_Man]

Good strong powerful character

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Kindness. Being kind brings you blessings as well.

[Lyssiar]

A good joke is the key of my heart.

[JesseJayNeak]

Kindness is the best trait

[Wise4myage]

D. Why not all three?

[Asker]

It's best if it's all three, obviously, but which is the absolute deal breaker for u?

[Wise4myage]

Kindness.

[Siren777]

Kindness. ❤

[Ottilie_x]

Kindness for sure!

[Slim57]

Strong character