Would you rather prefer small talk or a deep intellectual conversation when being approached?

[Notfabricated]

[Cherry234]

I prefer a deep intellectual conversation. I like to get to know people and what they really think. It’s like this with my cousin and I. When I spent about a week at his house I would ask him questions and he would go very in depth with his answers. He told me I ask good questions

[SheerKiss3]

Deep intellectual conversation would catch my attention easier than a small talk.

[Notfabricated]

Thank you

[Riley000]

Deep intellectual conversations.

How you talk and the topic of your conversation does reflect on what kind of person you are. Honestly, I dont like small talks as they are extremely tedious and boring. But I have been told that it is a societal norm and I have to accept it. Still, I would like it if I can learn something from the people whom I talk to.

[JackSmy]

I like REALLY smart women, with long brown hair, and glasses! I love when they know some things I know, and maybe like things, or studied things bordering on things I did, so we can talk about those, and how they intersect, and maybe have ideas, together, and learning things she knows, like she likes learning what I know!!
It's like "Nerd" love!! We love each other's minds, and the conversations, then it goes further!

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I play my cards close to my chest until I know we're on a similar enough wavelength to open up.

So small talk first, and if I feel open to it with you, deep intellectual conversation next.

It's often how my conversations go. People tend to open up to me randomly.

[tatianamay]

I can’t do small talk. I’m more of a deep intellectual convo type of girl. That’s why I can vibe with depressed people easily, they are willing to have deep convos lol

[Notfabricated]

Lol I knew something was wrong with me lol

[tatianamay]

Nah, there’s nothing wrong with you 😂 I’m not depressed, but I love deep conversations lmao (I have mild anxiety tho)

[andreasderjuengere]

I want to be approached only when there's a reason for it.
People talk too much in general.

[Notfabricated]

Now thats funny lol

[andreasderjuengere]

That's relative. Imagine you're on a train ride, looking at the (nice) landscape passing by.
Then all of a sudden your seat neighbour begins to talk with you.
It makes no difference if he/she picks the weather or philosophy as a topic.
I just want him/her to shut UP :D
Where is that funny? Heh heh

[Notfabricated]

Its funny because its true. But what if you had an attractive person of preference come up to you starting a conversation about that same sunset. I'd rather have to beautiful thing to look at then 1.

[andreasderjuengere]

And while she talks, the sun goes down.
And she missed the sunset
Women! :D
However - it makes sense to make an exception every now and then.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Small talk is the appetizer, and deep conversation is the main course.

If you are lucky, you make it to dessert :)

[Noahcepticeye]

Small talk. If you walk up to me and start a deep conversation with me that's kinda weird. Like I just met you why you asking me about life's deepest issues lol

[Seinna]

Most of my conversations end up deep and intellectual lol I can't do small talk.

[NathanDavis]

[Somegirl408]

i prefer to talk about a topic, not necessarily a deep intellectual one though

[marc94]

Some people say you must not talk about politics, religion, ethics... but those are great topics to know if the other person is worth your time.

[Daviddd5412]

I kind of don't like small talk. Of course I'd like a deeper conversation but usually that wouldn't happen with a stranger.

[Jamie05rhs]

I would rather prefer a deep conversation. It gives me an indication that the girl is not a shallow airhead.

[Iron_Man]

Small talk the first meeting I don’t want to get into seven hour deep talking fest

[InferiorElegy]

I don't like to be made to feel like the retard I am so small talk.

[SamFromFL]

Why not just be present in the moment and not have anything planned? Just say hi and let the conversation flow

[Notfabricated]

I'm not ring to be disrespectful but the is as is. Some prefer talks about deep meaningful things and other dont. But I guess its all in a preferred convo, hence the question.

[SamFromFL]

When you first meet her she’s going to be wondering who you are and her defenses will be up. So just keep it light and fun. Save the deeper topics for a date or later conversation

[Notfabricated]

Omg my guy it is just a question on what do you prefer thats it. What do you prefer? That simple. Not what someone should do when approaching a someone or first meeting someone.

[SamFromFL]

I’d be surprised If anyone prefers a deep topic, that’s all. You asked when someone first is approached

[Notfabricated]

Lmao I did say that didn't I. My bad bro but even then it was a preferred question. I know women who would rather talk about something meaningful rather then small talk. Then I know some who only want to talk about reality tv and materialized things. But I guess its all in what you deem meaningful to you. But once again my bad because I definitely said approached.

[SamFromFL]

No worries bro. Yes if you meant preference after a date or once you are talking to someone then I think everyone is different

[Notfabricated]

Nope I still ment approached. But its cool. Sheerkiss got what I was asking.

[Notfabricated]

But I do appreciate you input.

[jshm2]

Neither. Speak on your level and shoot your shot. Anything else you'll just sound fake and nervous.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

None, but if I had to choose, I’d pick Dead Mans Curve. (Deep) because it wouldn’t be awkward and annoying

[MrJMM]

Bitch small talk makes me want to vomit. So of course a deeply intellectual conversation.

[Robert_]

Deep intellectual conversation.

[exitseven]

I miss deep intellectual conversation.

[Anonymous]

Intellectual conversation I hate small talks

[crazy8000]

Depends on circumstances.
normally prefer deep.

[mickeygee]

Deep intellectual

[Aiméexo]

A deep one.