Ever look back on old conversations and realize they were flirting?

[NotTacocaT6969]

I did today.

Damn I wish I had noticed at the time.

[PositiveNote]

I do look back and see several that I would just kick myself if I could not make a giant bruise!!! Not being aware of myself and not understanding the cues, things like this escaped me all the time. If I had been more aware, I wouldn't had a first marriage that failed. There were plenty of girls looking at me, but I didn't get it. I was too introverted to follow up, but the signs were there.

[IncognitoBandito]

Would you have wanted to be with the flirter?

[NotTacocaT6969]

Yes, absolutely.

But I honestly thought he was out of my league.

[IncognitoBandito]

Girls usually don't give themselves enough credit for how cute they are.

[FilmGuy93]

Sometimes. I've had situations where I'll look back on things and I could swear the woman was hitting on me in hindsight, but I've been told that I was just imagining things the few times I've asked the girl later.

There was one time that a girl I liked in high school wore a silky red thong to class. She was showing it off in these low rider jeans and was sitting right in front of me. I didn't think she was hitting on me at the time, but then I rethought things in the years after we graduated.

10 years later, I finally worked up the courage to ask her if she liked me back then; she just laughed and said she actually liked another kid.

[Texaskid1]

Uff...

When I was a college student I was as oblicious as they get. In hindsight I could of slayed so many times. I straight out had woman ask me out, show up at my dorm, give me gifts , ask me to take them to popular "make out"points at night, ... and I still did not get it.

Yes , I was that oblivious.

[TwistedSukuna]

Freshman year. Cutest girl in the class tried hitting on me and my anxious ass was too dumb to realize til I thought about it recently lol

[MedAsianGirl]

Do you mind sharing what they said? So if someone told me the same thing I know they're actually flirting lol

[NotTacocaT6969]

Not sure how to describe it other than he was putting a lot of effort i to spending tine with me.

The first time we hung out he “accidentally” left something important at my house.

The perfect excuse to come back the next day. Lol

[NotTacocaT6969]

Into*

[MedAsianGirl]

That's quite obvious to me lol my friends did something similar on one of my birthdays:) they said I left something on their car, when I was 100% sure I did not lol they were going to give me a birthday surprise but I was lazy to go (bc it's too late) so they presented it to me the next morning instead, which was still amazing!

[Shy_Steve]

Yes usually just after ir the next day or so but I don't really do anything about it because I'm fairly Shy.

[jeremy_09]

Haha I never thought about that. I'll have to check.

[MrCommodore]

Yeah, not only messages, but looking back at other stuff that happened too.

[Titlover01]

I do all the time and really messed up one by not realizing it till I left.

[Lonely888]

I wonder about that