Girls, Do you think a ball tap could be considered flirting?

[Anonymous]

[laraWM]

If you mean hit someone in the balls, I'd say no. I guess it is rather mean than flirty

[Asker]

Like a tap in the balls, not a full hit

[laraWM]

I'd have thought it's painful

[Asker]

Yeah it’s awkward since even a light tap can take us down. Have you seen a guy take a tap in the balls?

[laraWM]

Nope, I don't think I have seen a tap there. I'm sorry if that happened to you

[Asker]

Do girls know anything about cups? I wear it for lacrosse but It’s so uncomfortable

[laraWM]

No, fortunately we don't have that issue but I know some guys need to wear it

[Asker]

Would you think less of a guy for having to wear a cup

[laraWM]

No because I know being hit in the balls is very painful. I saw once a guy hit by a baseball and I think he'd have be happy to wear a cup

[Asker]

How did he react? So you don’t expect a guy to be able to handle a hit in the balls?

[laraWM]

He double over and fell to the floor. I had to drive him home after the game because for some reason he couldn't walk
I don't expect anything but I wouldn't be surprised if he'd react badly

[Asker]

Was it awkward at all driving him home knowing he probably had sore balls? Did you talk about it at all?

[laraWM]

Not specifically, I didn't dare to ask how it affected his ability to walk

[Asker]

I just meant like asking how his balls were feeling, I’m sure he was still holding and rubbing them

[laraWM]

Yes he was holding his balls in the car. I proposed to go to the hospital but he said he was fine

[Asker]

Is that weird when you see a guy holding his balls in front of you? I was holding myself on the ground and after I got up

[laraWM]

Yes a little but I understand that it is because it must hurt a lot

[Asker]

Do you think you could take down a muscular guy with one hit? It’s embarrassing to admit a smaller woman can do that

[laraWM]

Yes probably but you know better than me

[Asker]

But how can you think a guy is tough if he’s bigger and stronger than you yet you can still take him down with one hit!

[laraWM]

I guess from the guy reaction but obviously not sure at all

[Asker]

I just meant that even a hard tap in the balls takes us down and thats embarrassing because then girls don’t think we’re manly

[laraWM]

So you agree. And I don't think girls think that way, at least I don't

[Asker]

Yeah I know it’s true, it’s just embarrassing to admit since we want girls to think we’re tough

[laraWM]

Don't worry. I think it is good to tell because being strong is also acknowledging weaknesses

[Asker]

Yeah but that’s our manliest area, that’s why we don’t like telling girls it’s so vulnerable

[laraWM]

That's why it is strong to tell it. Plus I think everyone must know it because it can be helpful to girls if assaulted

[Asker]

Yeah but if you were single in college and met a muscular athlete, wouldn’t you think less of him if you know his balls were really vulnerable?

[laraWM]

No, of course not

[Asker]

Why do you say that?

[laraWM]

Because I don't think so. I mean maybe if he hurts his balls all the time

[Asker]

Since I play lacrosse, it’s a pretty physical sport

[laraWM]

Healthy 😉

[Asker]

Hah yeah but even a light hit to the balls drops me

[laraWM]

You need to accept it and get over it

[Asker]

But what do girls think about that?

[laraWM]

Really nothing 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

You don’t mind at all that balls are really sensitive? Wouldn’t you like them to be tougher like the rest of our body?

[laraWM]

No, I don't really think about it. I feel bad for guys when they are hit in the balls

[Asker]

That makes me feel better, I always thought girls thought less of us if we drop to the floor

[laraWM]

You're welcome

[Asker]

She made a comment about how it was cute I kept adjusting my cup during the game. What do you think that means?

[laraWM]

She likes you maybe

[Asker]

Why bring up me adjusting my cup?

[laraWM]

It's a bit weird honestly, but I keep the cute thing

[Asker]

Why do you say it’s weird but cute?

[laraWM]

I mean she said it is cute, so good for you. Go talk to her

[Anonymous]

Maybe if the guy likes painful stuffs

[Asker]

The girls on the field hockey team at my college like to do ball taps to guys on the lacrosse team, they think it’s funny how quickly we drop

[Opinion Owner]

Sound like weirdos

[Asker]

Would you be surprised if a slap in the balls took down a muscular guy?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know because I don't have them

[Asker]

Have you seen a guy get hit there? I don’t get why girls laugh

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think so but I wouldn't have laughed

[Asker]

I guess I don’t want her to think I’m vulnerable down there