Girls, Any advice on making friends with girls when I’m a college athlete?

[Anonymous]

Since we spend so much time practicing and training with the team, I don’t get much social interaction with girls

[Anonymous]

That girl that you like will surely play you, try talking to a girl like me someone who is shy and average and not into sports your chances will fly off the roof with a girl like that so stop being superficial and date a girl like that.

[Asker]

Thanks! Do you mind if I DM you for some more advice on talking to them?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I would love to

[Asker]

My name is cr200111

[Opinion Owner]

I'm going to give you tips right now okay

How you approach a girl like me is by going up to her and complimenting a feature on her by saying "hey I hope you don't mind me saying this but you have a pretty smile or you're pretty" girls love confidence

Then be bold and ask her "hey are you single" by this she will either say no or yes, and if she says yes then that's when you say "Is it alright if I can get your number" if she says yes you're in my guy and you get a girlfriend.

I hope this helps

[Asker]

Should it compliment something like her smile or hair or maybe something she’s wearing?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes but always ask after that "hey I hope you don't mind me asking but are you by any chance single"

[Opinion Owner]

This is legit stuff I'm sharing with you so I hope you use it, you might even get that girl you like who plays softball but just warning you she might tear your out in the future, I know these type of girls

[Asker]

I know she’s single, she plays on the college softball team, and I play on the baseball team so we see each other a lot, and are friendly. I’ve just been too shy to ask her out. She’s joked with me on how tight our baseball pants are and why we always adjust ourselves during gaMes

[Opinion Owner]

She might break your heart but if you want to risk that then by all means go ahead and try to ask her out she might say yes but it might not even last.

[Asker]

I don’t love her or anything so I hope it doesn’t break my heart if she says no. But she seems fun and flirty.

What do you think she meant by the tight pants and adjusting ourselves comment?

[Opinion Owner]

And she'll be flirting with other guys too if she ends up going out with you so I'm just warning you but you seem to not want to listen because you want this girl so bad and what she meant is that you probably looked stupid and that's why she pointed it out.

[Asker]

Look stupid because baseball pants are tight? It’s not like we pick them out

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry but I think that's what she was implying or maybe she likes you too and that was her way of trying to talk to you back

[Asker]

It did seem kinda flirty since she was basically talking about my private parts you know?

[Opinion Owner]

Like overall it seems like you both like each other but I'm telling you it's not going to last because I know girls like her, they are flirty whores and they will break your heart eventually

[Asker]

What makes you think she is a flirty whore?

[Opinion Owner]

And do you really want a girl like that?

[Opinion Owner]

And why are you defending her she's not even your girlfriend and she probably doesn't even like you and flirts with other guys like that too

[Asker]

I don’t want to date a whore, but I don’t think she is. I’m pretty sure I heard she’s a virgin, as am I

[Opinion Owner]

So they are just rumors and I'm pretty sure she's not a virgin, but people lie for her or she lies, listen I hope you make the right choice and end up with a nice girl

[Asker]

She isn’t as touchy with other guys as hard as I’ve seen, like she’ll cup check as a joke but doesn’t do it to any other guys

[Opinion Owner]

Then just go out with her then you are very superficial anyway so just go ahead and watch it explode in your face in other words it will blow up in your face

[Asker]

That doesn’t sound fun lol

[Opinion Owner]

You want this girl so bad like just go out with her and lose your virginity to her but maybe she won't break your heart I don't know Everytime I try to give you advice you go off defending her so I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

She doesn't like you like that but you won't accept the truth

[dustybiker]

What type of athlete? You don’t go to parties? Girls don’t come up to you?

[Asker]

I’m on the baseball team. I sometimes go to parties but I’m kinda shy

[dustybiker]

People like to talk about themselves. Think of good questions that require a decent answer, pick a girl you like and ask them. Just be yourself, it’s most attractive.

[Asker]

There’s a girl on the softball team that I like. We’ve talked a few times, she’s kinda flirty and has joked to me how about my tight baseball pants shows off some stuff

[dustybiker]

That’s a good sign. Does she have a boyfriend?

[Asker]

No, I’ve joked with her a few times too. We sometimes share the gym for lifting so I see her a bit. She once commented on why guys adjust themselves so much during baseball, do you think she said that to be flirty

[dustybiker]

It does sound like she is interested in you. Give it a shot. Ask her out.

[Asker]

Do you think she was making fun of me for wearing a cup? I think I’ll give it a try

[dustybiker]

Not making fun of you in a bad way. More conversation, and teasing generally.
Be brave! Have fun on your date.

[Asker]

Do you think it’s weird she’s teasing me on something that involves my private parts?

[dustybiker]

No. Especially if she’s an athlete and not a more “fragile” girl. She’s braver and has a good sense of humor.

[Asker]

Yeah she’s very outgoing

[dustybiker]

She sounds cool.

[dustybiker]

Don’t listen to the other girl, she’s playing mind games with you.

[Asker]

Thanks yeah I figured. Would you mind if I sent you a dm about her?