Girls, Which Statement do you think is more true?

[Anonymous]

"Shy Guys are better off becoming more Confident to find love".

"Shy Guys are better off being who they are to find love".

[Anonymous]

It’s hard to choose which one is better. I feel like either or can find love but it has to be in the right environment. I do agree that the more confident a person is, the better chance they have to being found attractive. Girls like confident men. They just bring this type of aura to themselves.
With that being said, Just because you are shy- does not mean u are not confident. It just means you aren’t as outgoing in certain situations. Shy guys can find a girl if he has all the qualities a girl desires. Low confidence is different. If a man is unsure of himself, how can he convince a girl otherwise?
Why do U think so many girls are attracted to the bad boys? They have such a confidence that attracts women. Even with all the toxicity they bring, their confidence is what makes women drool over them.

[Asker]

Yeh, Well I already know that, But which Guy has a better chance of finding love.
The Guy who is not being himself but becoming Confident or the Guy who is being himself but just Shy?

[Opinion Owner]

It’s hard to say…. First impressions mean a lot. So a person who is not being themself but is confident? How do I know they aren’t being themself…. Shy is not a problem to me as long as his personality is good.

[bones_20]

Second one obviously. It’s always better to be your true self 🖤

[Asker]

I'm 38 and still a Virgin, I have been myself my whole life.