Girls, Which scenario is better in your opinion?

[Anonymous]

To be married to a man who initially has sex just for initial intimacy and exploring... but then doesn't do anything sexual at all

To be married to a man who wants regular frequent sex... and gets upset if he doesn't get it very often

[SueShe]

In my case I would definitely chose the lesser of both evils and settle for option one.


However, I must have the guarantee that he will not fornicate elsewhere and be a cheater.


Personally and if I had the choice I would take missing option “3” which would state


“Not being married and not having sex”.
Unfortunately, you omitted that option.

[Flower7]

True, sounds like option 1 could end up being a cheater…

[Asker]

@Flower7 why would he end a cheater? If he doesn't like sed anyway?

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[Flower7]

Asker, just because he’s not having sex with me doesn’t mean he’s not getting it from somewhere else.

[Asker]

@Flower7 no. He is definitely not getting sec fro anywhere else. He's just sometimes masturbating. Then?

[Flower7]

The first one is better for sure. Less needy.

[Asker]

You'd be ok with absolutely NO sex after initial couple of times?

[Flower7]

Yes I barely even like sex.

[Asker]

Ok!!
Do you like and want (clothed) hugs and cuddles once in a while?
Or it would be ok if even those are absent?

[Flower7]

Is this question about you? Do you have low interest in sex?