Greet, ask how her day was, she may tell you about her day in great detail if so follow the flow. If not, find a common thing y'all both share and talk about it. Then, try talking to her in-person about that in-text conversation.
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just find a common topic to discuss about , that maybe both of you like.
Woat. It's that you want to talk to them because you have something to discuss or ask.. otherwise what's the point. you communicate and understand each other better, not understand each other then communicate
You don't. If you manage to get any conversation going at all on text, your next step should be to IMMEDIATELY set up an in person meet up.
Stop trying to relate to people over text on a phone.
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Depends on the situation. I found it pretty easy if I already knew the girl IRL. If I was cold calling her on a dating app, that sounds a lot harder.
You don't.
The power is with women. If they decide that you're attractive and they like you, they'll even reply your apathetic text message. If you ugly to them, you can send them the moon and you'll be ghosted.
Welcome to life as a man. HahahaIf she is in school you ask her how her studies have been going and if she isn't in school but working you ask her if she has had a hard day or not, if she is in neither you ask her what her dreams are
Texting is a waste of time if you haven't met them.
In my experience you don't. No matter what topic or Fandom you bring up it never leads to a conversation.
The best way would just be to say "hi, how are you", since it's non threatening, usually
Then just see if you two have anything in common. People gravitate towards commonalitiesDONT.
Learn how to talk to them in person first.
It just makes it super awkward the next time you meet them when you spend all that time texting.
Why text?
I'd much rather talk on the phone
And hear a sexy voice, than textTalk about what brings you to gag and welcome to the site And just be friendly after that
I can't explain it. It just happens naturally if the chemistry is there.
Texting gets boring real fast.
Like with any person.
The same way I would in person
You say “hello”
Just follow her lead
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