Which Topics Are Best For Having Conversation With Women?

[ShadowMonarch]

I've been talking to a girl for about a week but I can't get anything on her. Everytime I ask her about her hobbies, study, job or anything else she doesn't give any info but replies with I don't have or I don't know. because of this it gets awkward very fast and our conversation starts to feel heavy.
Any Ideas on how I can deal with this matter?

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+1 y

She made the first contact and it doesn't seem to me that she does not like me... it's just that I'm bad at socializing and don't know what to talk about...

[sunny]

Having a great conversation with a woman is all about understanding what topics are best to discuss with her. By knowing which topics are most likely to interest a woman, you'll be able to keep the conversation flowing and avoid any awkward silences.

Here are some great conversation starters that are sure to get a woman talking:

1. Her hobbies and interests
2. Her job or career
3. Her family and friends
4. Travel
5. Fashion
6. Food and drink
7. Movies and TV
8. Books and music

These are just a few examples of topics that are sure to get a woman talking. So next time you're struggling to keep a conversation going, try one of these topics and see where it takes you.

[ShadowMonarch]

Thank you!

[SueShe]

Those would be the typical topics to address with a person you are seeking the conversation with.

Now, she seems not to want to give any information about herself and that leads me to believe that she does not want to give any data about herself to you. In other words, she is hinting that you should perhaps leave her alone as she is obviously trying to distance herself from you.

Normally, if someone talks about topics such as the hobbies and interests, it should awaken the need to converse with that person as you may share similar interests.

However, since she refuses to talk about her hobbies and interests, you should take it as a hint that you should perhaps not pursue with her.

[ShadowMonarch]

Well it's not like that,
She met me on an social app
And initiated the first conversation and even gave me her number without asking..
I'm a person who doesn't like to talk with people...

[SueShe]

The best way is to ask her what topics she would want to talk about and if she still remains vague about them, then ask her why she initiated the conversation in the first place since she obviously is not interested in keeping a conversation alive.

[ShadowMonarch]

I asked that already but she replies with I don't know although she did tell me her mother died 6 months ago so I assumed that she is stressed and can't have a clear mind

[SueShe]

It looks to me as if she is not interested in communicating since she does not want to open up to you. My suggestion is to let her take the initiative to start a conversation. If she does not, then it is best to distance you from that person because she does not really make sense to me.

[ShadowMonarch]

Ok... I'll keep that in mind and thank you for your advice

[SueShe]

no problem.

[Weird_name]

She could be shy and feels like you're not interested in her at all. So she's trying to distance herself because she's afraid of getting attached then get hurt after. After all she just lost her mom. Imagine the pain of seeing someone go and you'll never be able to see them again? I don't think I can stand once again if someone would be out of my life the second time around.

I have this kind of experience. I met him online. I like him a lot, but I don't think he likes me that much. I don't want to mess things up, which I think I did a lot of times 😅. When he'd call I keep my mouth shut because I'm afraid I might say something stupid. I'd like him to notice me? Heck I can't even stop thinking about him. I honestly wanna try things out with him. But I have to stop chatting him sometimes because I think he's not even interested in talking to me and I'm getting attached.

And that's weird I also told him my mom died almost 6 moths ago? Lol and I also cried to him over the phone and I think I made things worst. After that I feel so ashamed... Stupid me. Anyway, we have different stories to tell. Quite similar but different. Sigh life.

I just can't help but share mine when I read this part lol.

Just tell her honestly what you're up to. Me personally, I like to start deep and meaningful chats than flirt when I don't know the person personally. That way I can see where he'd be comfortable and where his boundaries start. I don't cross boundaries 😌 and I'm not used in talking casually I always run out of words lol. But that's me. But it might work out tho? after all girls do almost think the same at times.

If you don't like her and doesn't like her to be around you, tell her. That would be much appreciated rather than you make her believe there's a faint chance between you two. She might be hoping.

[random_girl95]

If you see that a person is not interested in talking to you even if she was the one who initiated the conversation then you need to stop worrying about it. See how the current situation is and if she doesn't feel like sharing you will have to leave her alone. It's that simple.

[ShadowMonarch]

So I need to wait and see what happens... ok... I'll do that...

[random_girl95]

Only if she is worth it I guess. You don't need to stress yourself over someone who won't give you as much desirable attention.

[ShadowMonarch]

It's not that I'm that interested in her. . it's just that it happened to me out of the blue and I got a little puzzled...

[random_girl95]

That's normal. I totally get it.

[kinggeorge007]

That's the disinterest bro. You'll have to move on eventually. Here's the thing, forced conversations doesn't work. It has to flow naturally. If it doesn't, the the hint and move on. I know it's sad, but it's what it is. Let's try somewhere else.

[DonkeyDan]

Honestly sounds like she isn't interested, otherwise her answers would be more involved. I'd take the hint and cut your losses.

[ShadowMonarch]

The thing is I didn't even initiate our first conversation, she is the one who talked to me on a social app and then she gave me her number without asking..
It's just I don't have socializing skills she does talk about her day a little bit..

[DonkeyDan]

Everyone has some hobbies, study or job, if she really doesn't have anything to say about them she sounds like a very boring person. Asides from the initial contact, does she ever initiate new conversations with you, or is it always you messaging her first?

[LazerBean]

Honestly it just sounds like she isn't interested in you.

[dustybiker]

Ask her something such as if she could go anywhere for a trip where would she go?

[sheikalana]

Lifestyle, hobbies, getting to know her and being interested in learning what she likes to do.

[Chiarac2003]

It has 2b mutual n maybe she’s shy.

[Avicenna]

Talk about interesting places you’ve visited

[bamesjond0069]

Flirt flirt flirt. Never talk about normal things

[Iron_Man]

Yea time chat

[rainn_stalker]

She's not interested