Is it a red flag if a guy flirts too much after just meeting you?

[Anonymous]

He makes lots of conversation , asks me questions about myself , he hasn’t said anything sexual to me before , and replies 10-30 min.

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1 y

I think your right. I’ll do that for now , but I’m just genuinely hurt that he didn’t decide to double text me.

[slatyb]

Has he told you he's in love with you? Have you met?;if not, when?

[Asker]

No because we barely knew one another and second we had just met so we didn’t make any plans to see one another JUST yet. I also unfriended him I’m so done.

[RuthlessAggression]

I don't know because I don't know what flirting is, apparently

[Wise4myage]

No, not necessarily. And don't get butt hurt over double texting.

[Asker]

Well … looks like I sabotaged the whole thing we had going on. I even unfriended him 😐 . And I am butt hurt because it means he didn’t actually wanna talk to me.

[Wise4myage]

Ok, then its time for you to move on.

[ross83]

He probably really likes you

[Asker]

I feel like I’ve sabotaged everything now though :(. Last night I was having intense anxiety in my gut , I don’t know if that’s an intuition or what they call now a days a “ gut feeling “ as a warning , but I ended up asking him why he’s flirting so much if he just met me. He said “ sorry is that a good or bad thing “ with a laughing emoji so after that I said I was going to sleep out of fear , then he said “ goodnight , sleep well. “ I liked the message and left him on read the next morning , and he hasn’t texted me all day today , but he’s been posting on his story. I definitely don’t plan on texting him , but I just did that out of fear and wanted to see if he’d care enough to continue to pursue me but I guess not :(.

[ross83]

If u think your gut is warning you then you probably best staying clear of him

[Asker]

I think your right. I’ll do that for now , but I’m just genuinely hurt that he didn’t decide to double text me.

[ross83]

Why did you want him to text you

[Asker]

Obviously because I’m interested in him and want something with him

[ross83]

Have u texted him

[Asker]

No and I don’t want to. It’s late here and it would probably make him think I have no self respect.

[ross83]

Oh ok text him in the morning and say hi

[Asker]

No , I can’t 😞. It just feels better to disappear and let him miss my absence. I’m so sad now.

[ross83]

Don't be sad he might still message u

[Asker]

Maybe I don’t want to get my hopes up

[ross83]

Private message me if u want, does he go to your school

[Asker]

No he doesn’t go to my school but we live in the same city he just goes to a different school

[ross83]

Oh how did u meet

[Asker]

Through Snapchat

[ross83]

Oh ok

[ross83]

Is he the same age as u

[Asker]

He’s one year older

[ross83]

He is 16?

[Asker]

Yes he is

[Asker]

he’s also right now reposting other girls posts on his story. I guess he finds them attractive. 😔

[ross83]

He ain't worth it hun if he is messing you about

[Asker]

Yeah I unfriended him on Snapchat and Instagram. What an idiot.

[ross83]

It's his lost hun

[Asker]

It for sure is

[ross83]

U will meet someone far better

[Asker]

I hope so. I’m so tired of feeling like I’m not enough for anyone. I just want someone to care about what my favorite song even is.

[ross83]

You still young u got plenty of time, I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 16

[ross83]

Follow me on here

[Asker]

I don’t follow anyone on here , why should I follow you? 🤔

[ross83]

Ok I thought it would be easier to message

[Asker]

Oh alright then

[slatyb]

"Last night I was having intense anxiety in my gut" Pay attention to those feelings. I would be wondering "Does he have a life? Normal people are too busy to text constantly."

[Asker]

I mean he did tell me he was editing his music since he does music , and he was still texting me making me a priority. There were times where he wouldn’t answer for an hour because he would take a nap. I didn’t take it too much into consideration cuz I was the same. But about my gut feeling , yeah I was having butterflies in my stomach and it didn’t feel good at all :(.

[jasco]

No not sure