Are guys turned on by watching girls dancing in the bar/club?

[Anonymous]

So I was dancing at a bar and there was this guy that I like that kept watching me like a deer in headlights. Anyway, I noticed that he was kind of nervous, excited (I don't know how to describe it) , he tried to get my attention by kissing another girl ( I don't know wtf) and as he tried to pass by me he was leaning in really close to my face while he had that smiley naughty look ( I also think that he was a bit embarrassed ).
Later on he was trying to get my attention by standing close to me and he also grabbed me by the waist to pass by (even though there was enough space for him to pass) . Is there a reason why guys do all of these things? Also I'm curious was this guy turned on?

[alderoth]

The answer to all of your questions is yes lol. Guys associate women's body movements to how they might move in the bedroom. If you are a really good sensual dancer, it drives guys crazy. Especially if you move your hips, because on the basic animalistic level, guys look for hips, thighs, etc, for procreating reasons. So if you were using a lot of hip movements, yeah, he was turned on lol.

As far as kissing someone to make you upset, that is something you will have to figure out. I mean it could be, but I don't know either of you well enough to say a definite yes.

Him grabbing your hips to walk past when there is more than enough room? He was definitely trying to get his hands on you in some sort of way. He was too afraid to flat out ask you, so he was trying to find ways to throw hints, or at least feel you close for a minute. Guys do this all the time, unfortunately, it allows us to smell your perfume, body odor (not bad odor lol), it turns us on.

As far as embarrassed I don't think so. I mean it sounds like he WANTED you to think he was this dolt "accidentally" getting too close, accidentally grabbing you, everything is just a big ole "WHOOPS!!" For an example watch the "Family Guy" Episode 10: "Big man on Hippocampus" and watch Glenn Quagmire try to catch Lois and reel her in for a date night and ultimately sleep with her lol. It's essentially the same thing lol.

The last question, "Was this guy turned on?" yes, he was persuing you. He wanted to get your attention and hopefully get a few minutes along with you, or possibly go on a date/have a relationship with you, BUT this is all just my opinion based off the facts presented in the questions lol.

I wish you the best of luck in navigating the complicated world of dance clubs and dating!!

[Whatever2929292]

Some... Yes but I think that perving on a woman who is just out trying to have a good time is creepy at best. But then again some women like creeps because they give them attention and some are creepy themselves.

Nothing wrong with going and talking to a woman and maybe asking her out or something like that or for a woman going and talking to a man and doing the same thing.

But that is not the same as "getting turned on". How do you know he was getting your attention kissing another girl? If he was really into you would he not just approach you? That or he is playing games and anyways. That makes no sense

I think that that guy was a creep. I don't know why guys do things I am a guy but I can'r read other guys minds and people do stuff all the time that makes no sense to me whatsoever

[Asker]

Yeah I think so too... he was definitely playing games

[Whatever2929292]

and being a pervert. He also should not be touching you. I mean sometimes you have to to get their attention and say excuse me.

But you were not soliciting that kind of attention from a stranger. You are just trying to enjoy yourself and have a good time like most people there

[Tomsta]

Depends on the kind of dancing. Being a dancer myself i've always watching people dance and i can instinctively tell when someone is "forcing it". Also i'm not one for the "slut drop"

Your average joe dancing not my thing, but you start throwing in some body rolls or some decent hip movement, then you have my attention

[WodensGedriht]

He went for the other woman cause if women see you with other women they suddenly desire you more, cause you're seen as a more valuable target suddenly.

It's something that manifests in the female psyche more, but men try to tap into that female psyche.

He was probably turned on. How were you dressed at the time?

[AviatorTom]

He obviously found you very attractive, and his "innocent" actions were checking you out to see if you were interested. He probably went back to his hotel room and masturbated, thinking about you.

[ChrisMaster69]

That sounds more creepy than anything else.

girls dancing is just background noise, don’t really notice it overly in an attraction sort of way, unless there is something different.

[killarney]

I think yes some are, why I never know, she there for to make money,, Not the best Job really,,, and brings in tots of customers to spend loads of money looking at her while bar owners are laughing all the way to the bank 😃😆😃

[Blueeyes81]

Just sounds like a typical drunk dude at a club.

As for me watching a woman dance does nothing.

[Nahid1707]

You have a crush? What type of dance was this? and Were you dancing by yourself? It does depend on the dancing 😊

[anton_dee]

Guys get turned on by physical aspects (looking, touching, etc.) So yeah

[RuthlessAggression]

Why do girls think the only way to meet a man, is through a bar/club?

[Anonymous]

He was kissing another girl = he’s trying to get your attention.

Okey dokie.

[Thecubs22]

I really don't do that. I'll pass on this question.

[Fineasaaa]

Such a naive question lol, like are ya for real?

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah! Dancing can be very sexual.

[baserunner611]

I not, she never home with you

[EnglishEuropean]

No, he probably just wanted to have sex with you.

[In_Trance]

I'm sure some of them are

[Anonymous]

Depends on what she is wearing.

[Asker]

A black dress

[Opinion Owner]

Lots of cleavage?

[Asker]

Yeah

[Opinion Owner]

Then Id be turned on.

[Anonymous]

Because they're generally the sluts.

[Larcs89]

Yes I am in most cases

[serious]

Some men do, yes

[Anonymous]

it is called getting pussy

[Kelly6]

Dah
yes they do

[Iron_Man]

No big deal