Girls, How women get a guys attention at the gym?

[Dman4u]

So I been going to this new gym. I never really pay attention to women at the gym because I know most hate being hit on while trying to work out. There is one or 2 women I feel like they want me to approach. But I don't want to make any women uncomfortable. My question is what do women do at the gym to get a guy they have interest in attention

[PrettyPriya]

Well, hard for me to answer. I am like you and if at the gym don't want to be hit on. I am there to workout and not waste time flirting. So, I feel you there.

As to what signs there would be? I guess perhaps always there the same time as you, smiling, always around the same equipment, etc. I'm not really sure other than those types of things.

Of course, if you are wrong, then you have that awkwardness of being wrong and trying to flirt with someone who isn't looking for attention. I guess what are the signs/signals you think they are sending out that makes you believe these couple of women want you to approach them?

[Dman4u]

I'm definitely trying to not be wrong. I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable. 1 is always around me she never really makes eye contact but like the other day she kept passing by kind of close for the amount of she had. She stood directly in front me with her back turned while I was doing cable hip thrust. By in front of me I mean like an arms length away. Like she wanted to motivate me with her ass. i do randomly catch a side eye look from her. And sometimes I see her turn to look away when I try to catch her looking but it's so hard to tell

[PrettyPriya]

@Dman4u I get it. I know exactly how you are feeling. You don't want to be bothersome but also don't want to ignore signs of attention. From the extra details you just gave, I would lean towards she might be trying to get your attention.

Does she do this often? Like multiple days you are there? If so, I would say probably you are correct she is trying her hardest (without being too obvious) to get you to talk to her. That is purely a guess but from the details sounds like it.

That is always something you can slip in like "hey, do you want to get a coffee sometime" or something really casual once you have struck up a conversation and see she is engaging you.

[Dman4u]

I been going to this gym for about a month now and I say in the last week it's been more frequent or I'm just noticing now lol I'm slow at picking up signals. Thank you for your thoughts and ideas. I think I'll try the small talk and hope I notice any good signs

[PrettyPriya]

@Dman4u You are welcome. Okay, so yeah... if it is becoming frequent may be worth it just to see if she will chat and take it from there. Hope things work out (no pun intended) and you get a chance to meet up with her. Good luck!

[hihihiok]

Stare dead into your eyes.

[Dman4u]

Thats perfect. I wish more women would just approach or at least be obvious that you like the guy. Do you like the guy to look deep into your eyes

[hihihiok]

Like yes just look into my eyes and surrender.

[Nikki1989]

I stopped going to the gym because guys would flirt with me daily.