How do I get a guys attention at the gym?

[Emily98]

There's this tall handsome guy at the gym, I've been trying to get his attention but he's like super focused and never takes out his headphones. Any ideas on how to approach him or get his attention?

[yepdonethat]

Did you ever see Dirty Harry in Magnum Force? "Try knocking on the door." You ladies are way too shy. Find your warrior. Just go tell him you want him. And yes, many of us are 100% going to like you just saying, "wanna go fuck?" LOL. We are just different. Very forward and we like forward. So be forward. Find your warrior. Take what you want.

[OfMiceandMen]

I would try to get his attention after his workout.

I keep my eyes to myself and my attention on my workout as you don't want to be labelled a creep by some of the women working out at the same time. The workout space is not a pick-up space.

Maybe try timing your exit with his outside the gym area.

[slatyb]

Hand him a slip of paper with your name and number:

"Call me? Emily 408-555-1212"

[exitseven]

Some guys go to the gym and workout and not meet girls. Find out where this guy hangs out when he is not working out.

[DextroShade]

You are going to have to take the initiative and approach him because a lot of guys have been harassed, shamed, and kicked out of gyms to the behavior of attention-seeking gym thots.

[Anonymous]

I wear headphones at the gym all the time. If an attractive girl came up to me to chat, i'd take them off. Just find something to comment on. Tell him you like his t-shirt or his shoes or something. Then see where the convo goes from there.

[catsmemoir]

Do a TikTok video where you complian that he's checking you out/perving on you

[BarryLiverstone]

Make sure you leave the gym at the same time that he does a few times

[Lonelydudewantsagirl]

He probably isn’t interested. If he is a tall and handsome type he most likely just wants the most attractive girls 🙄

[Pohjolan]

Tall, handsome and athletic guys are just normies in a gym.

[Lonelydudewantsagirl]

@Pohjolan But still chads in general lol

[Pohjolan]

Dude I know a championship level athlete who looks like a taller Tom Cruise who struggles with dating.
Sufficient looks is just one deal breaker less.

[Slapmynuts]

Work out next to him and make eye cony with a flirtatious smile! He will be sold!😉

[KrakenAttackin]

Leave him alone, he is there to work out. Don't poison gym for him.

[Anonymous]

Walk up and say hi.. most guys would appreciate this

[Ashley1993]

Try to make a move when he is leaving the gym

[spartan55]

Go up to him and say hi and introduce yourself? 🙄

[laly520]

talk to him
compliment his outfit or sth

[swettannie]

ask him for advice?