Ladies have ever fought for a man?

[Zolly99999]

Ladies have you ever fought to keep a guy or to win a guy over from another girl? I don't necessarily mean fist fights ( although I wanna hear that story too lol) . Were you ever in competition with other girls for the same guy?

Guys have you ever had girls fight over you?

[CrazyGirl2]

I would NEVER want to “win” a guy from another woman! Why would you EVER want to be with someone who cheated on their ex to be with you? Someone who has no problem cheating on “her”, will have no problem cheating on “you”! When you are with someone who has a wife, girlfriend, husband or boyfriend, that means they are cheating on someone to be with you, and if you have ever wondered whether your S/O might be cheating… with the type we are discussing here, the ONLY thing you truly KNOW about them is that they ARE a cheater! It is so true, that once someone proves to be a cheater, they will absolutely cheat again! (If you need an explanation why… See the parable of “The frog, & the scorpion, and what happened when they crossed the river”)
It’s just IN THEIR NATURE! Cheaters will cheat, it’s what they do, it’s even in their title! Cheater… see?

[Zolly99999]

@CrazyGirl2 well said... I lived through this.. thank you for the reply 😁

[CrazyGirl2]

I’m sorry you had to go through this truly, although the only TRUE victim of her cheating is the very first guy she cheated on… everyone who came after had that shares least some responsibility, b/c each successive guy, at least had some hand in helping her cheat on someone so THEY could be with her. Some people are just so terrified of being alone that they have to line-up a new S/O while they are still with the S/O they wanna get away from! But nobody deserves that, and as i said, I’m sorry that you had to go through it.

[Zolly99999]

The first time this happened I was aware of this and I agree with you.. it was wrong on my part. But the next I had no idea she was cheating until well after the fact...

[Zolly99999]

Oh and I've been the first guy before

[CrazyGirl2]

I’m pretty sure we’ve all been “the first guy” at some point, (metaphorically speaking, obviously)! My first real boyfriend cheated on me, most of my friends have been cheated on, and all but three of my closest sorority sisters have been cheated on, and they’re the three who’ve never had a boyfriend! (There may be others, but I just don’t know them well enough to speak for them). Getting cheated on, is almost like a right of passage! It sucks, it hurts, but once it happens to you, you never forget the signs, and you rightfully loose any sympathy for those who go after someone else’s S/O, and loose! I think the real “winner” in any situation like that is the one who is now OUT of that poisonous relationship!

[Zolly99999]

@CrazyGirl2 well said !!! Thank you

[CrazyGirl2]

Wow, thank you so much, I’ve always appreciated compliments to my intellectual pursuits, infinitely more than compliments to my appearance (which is such a shallow measure of one’s value in society). I truly appreciate the compliment! 🙏🏼🤗

[Zolly99999]

You are very welcome..
by the way I value intelligence as a very important attribute

[CrazyGirl2]

😘💋💖 🙏🏼

[AsaKyo]

No, I don't fight over guys cause' I'm always the one they like 😏

[Zolly99999]

@asakyo nice 😉
Thanks for the reply.

[BeachMe]

I would never fight someone else for a guy. He has to choose me. If there is any doubt about someone else …. They can have each other. I don’t want any part of it. That’s not a relationship.
The only thing I ever fought for was to keep a relationship alive. But there was never anyone else in the picture. We both worked on it. We weren’t married and it just wasn’t meant to work out.

[Midgetmcwidget]

No way if a guy doesn’t like me enough then I’m not fighting for him, it’s a two way street, relationships are equal

[Zolly99999]

@midgetmcwidget thanks for the reply

[Anonymous]

I wish man, that would be awesome!

Two bitches screaming and pulling each other's hair over me... hell yes

But no, unfortunately I live in the real world where I can barely get one girl to even take me over a bag of chips

[Zolly99999]

I hear that...

[Opinion Owner]

Lol..

[Anonymous]

My current girlfriend fought her sister, my ex for me.

[jengeorge26]

No, men are not worth fighting over.

[Zolly99999]

I only ask this question because I have a buddy and there are 2 girls fighting over who gets him.. and this isn't the first time for this guy either. 😳

[BeachMe]

Since it’s not the first time …. How did it end with the last “duel”? He didn’t end up with either one of them did he?
He will choose who he wants to be with.

[Zolly99999]

@BeachMe oh he slept with both of them.. and played the both of them.. and he is doing the same with these 2. I tried to warn then but they don't care.
Funny part Is he is hot or anything. He is above average at best.. lol
I don't get it.

[BeachMe]

Must be his personality/charm …. Super funny. Who knows. Sounds like a walking Petrie dish to me and an ass!!!
How are the girls not picking up on this? How old are they?

[BeachMe]

I just saw your age - is your buddy older than the girls and does he have a wallet? If so….. that’s your answer! They are stupid and he’ll end up with some stalker or an unwanted child.
My friend got 2 stalkers out of his deal! hope your friend has better luck.

[Zolly99999]

@BeachMe sometimes older.. no not really any money per say. Ohhh he had a few stalkers lol

[LazerBean]

Nope.

[Zolly99999]

@LazerBean thanks for the reply

[Avicenna]

Some have, most wouldn't bother to do it