Do you like texting to the person you like, or you think it’s a waste of time?

[Anonymous]

I like sending messages to who I like

It’s a waste of time I don’t like to do that

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+1 y

Imagine she/him likes to text you

[spacepirate64]

Texting has become a big misunderstanding. The fact it has become visually urgent and important is irrelevant to the idea why people these days have become aggressive over no cold hard facts. Google became the worst solution since 2003. Everyone knows it, but the phonies are seeing their precious opinions on the first page when they search the result that fits their "needs". the 90's was when the internet had a lot of useful facts.. Today the internet lacks a lot of it and the evidence to prove it.

[Fa1con]

I generally match the level of messaging someone sends my way, but whether there's hundreds of messages or just a handful I am always an advocate for clear and honest communication.

[Anonymous]

I like when they text me, but I get hella anxiety from texting them. I like talking, but the anxiety is exhausting.

Certainly not a waste of time though. A relationship never blossomed from two people never ever talking.

[Asker]

What type of anxiety? You’re nervous or?

[Opinion Owner]

Terrified of saying something that will make them think less of me.

[DancingQueen16]

Sure me and my boyfriend text almost everyday

[DannyUk2017]

I like to, text, sext, voice memo's, clips, gif's everything that i know makes the person from the other end feel Important, and not left out.

[DannyUk2017]

I'll keep my answer the same... but if its "deeper" than just friendship... i'm a pure Evil😈 in a naughty way... 🤣

[PJH359]

If you’re a shy person it’s a good way to break the ice

[Charlesbrandonf]

if there is a genuine reason to not to text then yes other than that why not.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

I overthink my way into not doing it, thankfully it's mostly a waste of time anyways

[d3n0939]

I try to know if they are interested as well and then I lose interest if they are not

[Apologies456]

I like to but at the same time I understand that it’s really a buffer

[Asker]

What do you mean a buffer?

[Apologies456]

It’s like.. if a guy is always texting instead of seeing in person they’re using the phone as a buffer because it’s easier to communicate as opposed to being interesting in person. This isn’t all cases I get that people are busy with life but I’d rather see them in person because attraction works in different ways in person

[Asker]

Ok. But if a girl likes to send you texts, and you like her as well, would you initiate texting more? :)

[Apologies456]

Yeah I would

[Asker]

Ok that’s enough. :)

I have a colleague, I feel like he likes me too. And I like him as well. He initiated the first time texting me, I was so happy. But he doesn’t like texting that’s obvious. After he initiated once, I initiated 2 times. He replied me with long texts but never initiated anymore. I don’t know if it’s because he doesn’t like texting or doesn’t like initiating texting me.

Thanks again :)

[Apologies456]

Yeah honestly some people just don’t like to text much.. maybe he’s one of them. Best of luck with that situation though!

[Asker]

Thank you ☺️

[Wise4myage]

I enjoy it, but not when they blow up my phone.

[maximumpower]

It's for communication only - not a necessary part of life (which some people REALLY need to get).

[Fuentes]

If it ain't about money it's a waste of time

[BlueScorpio]

I think its easier when done face to face.

[Asker]

During the days you don’t see him, don’t you have the urge to send him something?

[BlueScorpio]

I see him everyday, we live together and when we where dating, he always came over.

[Guy13]

1 or 2 texts... a week.

[Asker]

? serious?

[Guy13]

Text once Monday no response then say 👋 Thursday. Then let it go if no response…

[Asker]

If she sends you back and likes you sending her texts, would you do that everyday?

[Guy13]

If the boyfriend liked it, I would…

[Asker]

What if you are just flirting and testing each other?

[Guy13]

Whatever. I am an action person so one week of text and move or I go on...

[OlderThanILook]

I think it's a waste of time

[Asker]

Really?

[Asker]

What do you like to do then?

[OlderThanILook]

I don't do anything unless she talks to me first

[Asker]

She has to talk to you first everyday?

[OlderThanILook]

She doesn't talk to me, which is why I say it's a waste of time. I like her, almost certainly doesn't like me back.

[Asker]

Then you are out of the scope of my question. Of course I asked if she texted you back would you like to send her texts lol

[OlderThanILook]

If I knew she actually wanted to talk to me then it wouldn't be a waste of time. I'd enjoy talking to someone that enjoyed talking to me too and wouldn't eventually start ignoring me.

[Asker]

Poor boy…

[Anonymous]

I send maybe two texts a year.

[strateguy632]

.,2rd.