What are signs someone is into you/ finds you attractive?

[Anonymous]

Just want to know some signs to see if someone finds you attractive or is into you.

[Chris_Morgan]

They go out of their way to talk to you and they're playful, flirty and really nice (Just basically giving you attention). They find excuses to text you or spend any time they can with you. They compliment you and look at you a lot basically checking you out. They seem interested in you. They say that they like whatever you like (Even if they don't) LoL.

[Monalisa77]

They know this will get us backs up so what if theyre just playing us and doing it as banter between their mates?

[Chris_Morgan]

@Monalisa77
Well hopefully they aren't just trying to get sex and playing you as you put it. There's always a danger of getting used when a person lets their walls down and chooses to be vulnerable. I guess the more experienced we become, the more we can tell. It's important to get to know somebody and pay attention to the things they say and do so you can spot potential red flags early on.
For example: A guy who just wants sex might be saying a lot of sexual things to you early on, and he may also have a track record of friends with benefits, One night stands and promiscuous behaviour with no history of long-term relationships or marriage.

[Monalisa77]

He's definitely not said anything like that, just been interested in what I'm doing, I don't think any guy would even think about using me for that, but more so just as a wind up, it happened to me in college as soon as he got my number he avoided me

[Chris_Morgan]

@Monalisa77
I'm sorry to hear that, I think that would be a terrible thing to do to somebody.
Is it possible that he wanted to date you, but then he met someone else? I know that ghosting is pretty common these days the way so many are messaging multiple people at once. Either way it's very inconsiderate of him and I hope you have better luck in the future.

[Monalisa77]

No cos it turned out he was gay

[Chris_Morgan]

@Monalisa77
Oh, well that's a different story then and you shouldn't feel too bad about it. He was possibly feeling conflicted and confused about his sexuality and not sure what he wanted.
Hopefully you won't encounter that scenario again with your current situation.

[Monalisa77]

I saw him again a few years later n he came out with that straight away, im pretty sure he's not gay but im trying to find out if he has a girlfriend

[Rockstarrrrr]

They're either too comfortable or too nervous around you... Depends on their personality

[Tina19]

You notice them staring at you a lot especially when you are busy and not paying attention and you suddenly catch them staring

[Nicola1999_]

They tend to flirt with you. Probably do anything for ya.

[Smegskull]

Not sure... It's never really come up.