How can you tell if someone finds you attractive?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever wondered what others think of your appearance? I have.

Like with my guy-friends or random strangers... is there a way for me to know if a guy thinks I'm cute? Or ugly?

And how can I tell?

[GymBumGuy]

eye contact is a good one if they smile at you if a guy tries to talk to you this is more for strangers but typically a guy won't try to talk to you unless he thinks your attractive if its someone you know they might try to touch you casually or seem overly excited to be around you and if they look deep into your eyes in a certain way you will know when you see it this is for both strangers and people you may know but sooner or later if you keep talking to a person they will let there true feelings be know

[Asker]

What if they look deep into your eyes but are just a friend? I feel like eye contact is usually the norm during a conversation

[GymBumGuy]

while if its a friend or if you are talking to someone you have to look for other signs like how close they are standing like they are invading your personal bubble do they try to casual touch you but not like a friend touch but like in a flirting kind of way or do they ever seem to act different with you then other girls they are friends with do you seem to have there attention all the time if i had more info on what he acts like when he's with you i could probably give you a better answer

[DarkHumorRUs]

If its easy for you to think of examples of strangers who were really nice to you, you're probably attractive.

[Asker]

What if people in general are just nice? lol

[DarkHumorRUs]

To you? Yeah. Then you're probably attractive.
Take notice of how the cashier acts the next time you go to the store. If they're of the opposite gender, they'll either act shy or super nice if you're attractive.
Otherwise they'll be neutral.

Eh, it's hard to tell for the most part, but it's easier to tell when everyone thinks someone is attractive if you work in retail.

[apple24]

who cares, so what they find me attractive.! I don't want lust!

[ThisAndThat]

How exactly to you equate attraction to lust? If attraction is lust then everybody's guilty of it.

[ThisAndThat]

They stare at you a lot and probably mention they like you to your friends.

[Klaatu51]

by staring at u constantly maybe?