If a girl doesn't notice you how can you tell she's interested or not?

[Anonymous]

I have a problem I only approach women that I catch looking at me multipe times because that lets me know they at least find me attractive but if I see an attractive girl during lunch at school and she doesn't even look at me I don't have the balls to approach because I'm afraid. So I'm asking if a girl doesn't notice you is there still a chance she can like you. I get confused over physical attraction and just meeting someone and getting to like them along the way it confuses me. I always think if she doesn't look at me she's not interested in me.

[Littletad]

Hey. Well honestly, your right in that if a girl looks at you multiple times it's safe to say you can walk on up to her and say hello. It also seems that, by your writing, this is a boost in ego for you. But your cutting yourself short by ONLY going after someone that notices you. What if a girl is shy? What if she's not forward? What if she does like you, but feels the same way you do about girls?

What you need is experience. That is, to have the guts to ask a girl out on your own, without any signs that she might be interested first. Why should you do this? Because getting turn down is nothing negative at all. You have absolutely nothing to loose and everything to gain. Build the confidence to increase your social skills by becoming more relaxed in your approaches. Don't settle for only those that look at you, broaden your horizons and I promise you you'll feel better you did.

[JH5022]

this chick down here below me is all wacked out dude that has to be the hardest bullshit and set of secqunces I've seen for a while

[Asker]

What do you mean dude?

[Euro-Raver]

He means that maybe 1 out of 10 people do it that way and that it usually takes a month or two, when just randomly approaching them works just as well and takes all of 5 minutes.

[Anonymous]

okay what you're seeing in your lunchroom is physical attraction only, and you can't conclude any feelings on a girl based on her looks, sorry but it won't go anywhere...

and to be honest if you approach a girl, a STRANGER like that, shed be anything but turned on shell be freaked out...

the way to a girls heart is to become her friend first! you can't just pick the hottest girl around from a crowd and decide you want to be her friend to get to her heart, but what you can do is be more social, go to your classes, library study, be around your campus university and see if you make bigger social groups, and through networking you meet new frends, some of which that may be good looking girls...and then you can date someone

[sammyangel9991]

If the girl has no idea that you exist, she obviously can't be interested in you. However, if she doesn't personally know you, but she thinks your cute, she may just think you are out of her league and will therefore not even bother getting to know you. Generally though if you don't ever catch the girl taking a glance at you or looking at you at all, she's just not interested or she doesn't know you. Maybe she just didn't see you. You have to approach a girl if you are interested because girls are not mind readers and we can't tell that a guy is interested if he doesn't even approach us.

[IStarrr]

There are hundreds of people we don't notice, but we do notice those who want us to. I'm sure you're a great guy and if you start up a casual conversation with her, she might like you. It'll also give you an opportunity to see if you actually like her personality.