Help me figure out if my boyfriend finds me attractive anymore?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend spends most of his free time on his phone looking at girls snap profiles and story videos. He has said he doesn’t know why he does it and can’t stop. I’m worried he doesn’t find me attractive anymore and is only with me because we have a child together. Guys how do u know if someone doesn’t find you attractive anymore? What have some of you guys done to show a girl that you were no longer interested if you were too nervous to tell her?

[ProVox]

Are you giving up the sex? That's the only time my eyes go wandering, when she's on about week blueballs 🤬😆
I guess I'm in the opposite or similar situation. I do find my girlfriend attractive, I come on to her all the time, and let her know that but she can go months without giving me any intimacy or affection at all. She has cock ready and on standby at a moments notice, but never wants it. And I know she's not cheating. So, wtf?

[Asker]

Other way around he’ll say he’s not horny and then go jerk off to one of the snap girls and leave me in the dust

[ProVox]

Fk that, kick him to the curb.

[spartan55]

Him looking at those pictures does NOT necessarily mean he isn't attracted to you now.
What are you doing to hold up your end of the relationship?

[Asker]

Everything! Cooking, cleaning, driving him to work, gave up my Xbox abs tv so he could use it every day, I start the sex. I start the conversation. It’s extremely tiering

[spartan55]

Damn, it sounds pretty one sided. Have you talked to him about it? Not hinting, not casually mentioning it, but really talk to him about it?

[Asker]

Yah that’s when he says he can’t stop. I’ve also told him how it makes me feel but he just says why don’t you leave all I’m going to do is hurt you

[spartan55]

You should take him up on his offer. Clearly he thinks you don't have the guts to leave. He sounds like a slug loser.

[Asker]

I can't afford to live on my own right now with a newborn and toddler I’d end up leaving them homeless abs I can’t do that 😞

[spartan55]

Ugh why would you have kids with a guy like that? Smh...

[Asker]

He wasn’t like this until about 2 months into my pregnancy. It was like he flipped a switch

[Anonymous]

Please dont ruin your relationship just for the online pics liking, all guys do that even guys that are in healthy relationships they may even say flirty things but when it comes to really cheating even slightly in anyway they dont do it, think about other aspects like when you dress up nicely does he compliment you or notice it? Does he glance at you randomly?

[Asker]

He doesn’t look at me at all anymore. He doesn’t notice when I get done up he’s so glued into his phone on these girls. He won’t even try to have a conversation either

[Wizzie_R]

Its not like he looks at some other girls pics and he finds you less attractive