How do I give a guy my number without him asking?

[Anonymous]

I really like this guy I feel it's mutual strong attraction. I'm not sure how to give it to him. Is it better to give him my number on a note? or ask if I can give him my number?

Do I ask for his number? get his number after giving him mine?

I never do this the first time I like a guy enough to try this so far I keep getting shy so I haven't done it yet.

[Part2603]

Wait till he's fiddling around with his phone. You reach out with both hands, clasp your hands around his arm and run your fingers down to his palm, and you pull his phone out of his hand. Maybe you hold his hand with your other hand.

You enter your number into his contacts. "There... Now you can can talk to me whenever you feel like." and you hand him back his phone.

[Asker]

I won't able to do it that way he's my bus driver . Not sure if it's better to just ask for his number or give him mine on a piece of paper then ask for his also?

[Part2603]

You again! It's been like two weeks now. Did you do what I told you? Did you enthusiastically greet him? Tell him jokes? Touch his arm or his shoulder?

I TOLD you EXACTLY what you needed to do. Where's my progress report? I can't help you if you can't help yourself.

[Asker]

I haven't seen him on his bus. I've seen him driving by, I know which bus he drives haven't been on his route. Hopefully this week, going to try ask him where he's from and his name then give him my number or ask for his. If thats good too? or have number on a paper and hand it to him
. I'm terrible at jokes lol not sure I could touch his arm if he's at work

[Part2603]

I guess the luck of the draw, that his route changed or something? It's not entirely a bad idea that you give him a note...

Your small talk to get him to open up could be okay...

I'm just theatrical, and I like passion. I suppose if that's not you, if you're a mousey girl then maybe that's just what you got to work with...

Dude, it only takes a few minutes to Google up some jokes. You gotta make him smile. Even a corny one liner is gonna go a long way to make him associate feelings of joy and happiness with your face.

"What do you call a cow with two legs?"

"Lean beef!" :)

[Asker]

I wouldn't be good with the jokes. Same route different times of the day when I'm at work on different shifts either early or late. I think he must be on some sort of weird shift pattern too. i'll try the talking thing lol although I've tried that a while haven't managed might have to have a drink before it lol. He probably won't be expecting me to start talking or give him my number. I'm pretty sure he's noticed me saying more to him as times gone on.

[Asker]

Gave him my number Friday finally only took me months didn't see him last month.
I wished him to have a good new years he gave a little wink as I was saying it. Handed him the note and he like what is this. Acted coy say you'll see he opening fast I got off he shouted have nice day I said you too. He hasn't said anything yet. The note said lets get to know each other with my number and name. He didn’t reach out I think he’s shy. Cause he definitely is clearly interested , probably should’ve asked for his number

[serious]

I think it is better to ask for his number and then give yours.

[Asker]

Or does it make a big difference? or was gonna give it to him on a paper then ask for his number. Never asked a guy for his number in person

[Asker]

or even just ask to swap numbers

[serious]

No, there is no difference as such. Actually it does not really matter.