Is pale skin ugly? Is a tan more attractive?

Anonymous
I have pale skin, not the nice kind of pale, but more yellow, almost sick looking pale. My family think I look sick (most of them are medium skinned or almost as light as me and tan easily).

I don't tan well. I look even more yellow, jaundiced if I try to.

Because of the media and others around me I feel that in order to be beautiful I need to tan. And that it is acceptable to bully someone for being pale, but not to bully someone for being tan.
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As in tan, I mean REAL tan, either they were born with it or it's from the sun. Brown not orange.
Is pale skin ugly? Is a tan more attractive?
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