This guy saw me yesterday and was shook and told me i look 100 times better irl than on Instagram and even my walk is nice and stuff like that even though i rejected him MANY times. Why?
I think the why is what he said; paraphrased, he thinks you're hot. Your rejection won't change how he sees you.
As for how to make him stop, block him wherever you can. Attempt to make sure he doesn't go where you are (but don't let him change your life or your habits). If that doesn't work, tell him you'll get your dad/boyfriend/police/others involved. If that doesn't work, get them involved.
Sorry this is happening!
"Hahhaa he just doesn't respect my boyfriend which is sad... and doesn't respect me as well"
That's how you view it. From the opposite side, it doesn't look like that. He (and we, when we have behaved like he now) doesn't mean any disrespect to anyone, his point is wholly another.
However, you may explain to him how things look from your, and perhaps your boyfriend's, side. That will make him stop, unless he's a yahoo.
Why does it matter? You just said you have a serious relationship. If you are taking it seriously comments from others shouldn’t matter.
He clearly doesn't care that you're in a relationship and hopes one day you break up with your boyfriend and give him a chance.
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u boundaries should be clear and consistent...
after that, you can just block
or if in person, tell your boyfriend, or police... they can take care of it
but for any man that insists this much or more, it is because they are allowed to
Because you keep talking to him. When you keep talking to a guy it gives the impression that you're open to more. Why? Because most females who do that ARE open to more.
u Stop talking to him then because u still keep contact with him after u rejected him makes him think your playing hard to get
The guy is breaking the bro code, he should not be flirting with a taken girl.
It could be one of two things.
1 He could be a very lonely person who may have no or very few people in his life and he is building a fantasy life with you in the leading roll. If this is the case it could become very dangerous for you and even your family and friends.
2 He could be someone who is a miserable person and is only happy if/when he can stir up problems in someone elses happy relationship.
He has loads of time on his hands and is fishing. Some men think rejection is a ploy and women reject men so they'll come on to them. Ignore him or block him.
If you're serious about your relationship, don't respond to this guy
Just stop opening the messages. If you don’t want to block him entirely, just ignore the messages so you don’t get notifications of messages from him.
It's not in a man's nature to respect another relationship.
That's all taught by society.. so men strong enough to reject societal messages have a difficult time seeing "I already have a boyfriend" as particularly compelling.
ignore him. that's all how you can do. anything else is just gonna make things worse.
Because some guys don't care if you're in one. Block him and report him.
He really think you’re hot. Block him on Insta and avoid him as much as possible.
Sole guys are too dumb to take a hint when they get rejected.
Just block him online and ignore him in real life.
Yeah, you want him to stop SO bad you won't block him. Have you actually told him to stop with the inappropriate remarks?
Quit responding, quit replying, stop commenting back when he speaking or writes to you. If you’re replying then you’re allowing it to happen.
Women do this bullshit too.
It’s called not have respect for others
If he even notices your walk then he is mad for you.
H won't listen to arguements
What’s wrong with plain flirting? Non intention flirting…. as the police told me the other day.
Damn u talking about me? 😅 😅 😅
Because he doesn't care about your relationship
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