Why is this guy flirting with me in Instagram even though he knows I have a serious relationship?

[CoolCatMar1]

This guy saw me yesterday and was shook and told me i look 100 times better irl than on Instagram and even my walk is nice and stuff like that even though i rejected him MANY times. Why?

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What should i do to make him stop

[SnowedIn]

I think the why is what he said; paraphrased, he thinks you're hot. Your rejection won't change how he sees you.

As for how to make him stop, block him wherever you can. Attempt to make sure he doesn't go where you are (but don't let him change your life or your habits). If that doesn't work, tell him you'll get your dad/boyfriend/police/others involved. If that doesn't work, get them involved.

Sorry this is happening!

[CoolCatMar1]

Hahhaa he just doesn't respect my boyfriend which is sad... and doesn't respect me as well

[SnowedIn]

He clearly doesn't respect you. That sucks. My drones are in use right now or I'd vector a drone strike in on him. Perhaps invite him to one of your boyfriend's races and have all the guys threaten him to leave you alone?

[CoolCatMar1]

This is what i will do

[oh_k789]

"Hahhaa he just doesn't respect my boyfriend which is sad... and doesn't respect me as well"

That's how you view it. From the opposite side, it doesn't look like that. He (and we, when we have behaved like he now) doesn't mean any disrespect to anyone, his point is wholly another.

However, you may explain to him how things look from your, and perhaps your boyfriend's, side. That will make him stop, unless he's a yahoo.

[pewter_moon]

Why does it matter? You just said you have a serious relationship. If you are taking it seriously comments from others shouldn’t matter.

[CoolCatMar1]

I don't care about that i just don't understand why he didn't leave me alone

[sheikalana]

He clearly doesn't care that you're in a relationship and hopes one day you break up with your boyfriend and give him a chance.

[sheikalana]

@Mafia24 no, thanks.

[sheikalana]

@Mafia24 do you think I'm some cheap whore?

[CoolCatMar1]

I will delete his opinion soon it's disrespectful

[sheikalana]

Thank you dear.

[CoolCatMar1]

No problem

[NathanDavis]

boundaries should be clear and consistent...

after that, you can just block

or if in person, tell your boyfriend, or police... they can take care of it

but for any man that insists this much or more, it is because they are allowed to

[hahahmm]

Because you keep talking to him. When you keep talking to a guy it gives the impression that you're open to more. Why? Because most females who do that ARE open to more.

[CoolCatMar1]

Ok then

[boggboss]

Stop talking to him then because u still keep contact with him after u rejected him makes him think your playing hard to get

[CoolCatMar1]

Yeah you are right

[Berethor]

The guy is breaking the bro code, he should not be flirting with a taken girl.

[CoolCatMar1]

Yes not right bruh

[hahahmm]

Bro code only applies if you know who the boyfriend is. And it's debatable how taken a female is if she's not engaged to be married, married or able to ignore the dude.

[DCowboy4747]

It could be one of two things.

1 He could be a very lonely person who may have no or very few people in his life and he is building a fantasy life with you in the leading roll. If this is the case it could become very dangerous for you and even your family and friends.

2 He could be someone who is a miserable person and is only happy if/when he can stir up problems in someone elses happy relationship.

[Screenwriter]

He has loads of time on his hands and is fishing. Some men think rejection is a ploy and women reject men so they'll come on to them. Ignore him or block him.

[aaron210419]

If you're serious about your relationship, don't respond to this guy

[CoolCatMar1]

Yes, Sir😌 this is exactly what i am gonna do

[aaron210419]

Good job, don't give your boyfriend any reason to doubt you and get used to creeps like that other sending you dm's. It's sad but there are plenty of creeps out there

[CoolCatMar1]

I agree it's sad

[FilmGuy93]

Just stop opening the messages. If you don’t want to block him entirely, just ignore the messages so you don’t get notifications of messages from him.

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

It's not in a man's nature to respect another relationship.

That's all taught by society.. so men strong enough to reject societal messages have a difficult time seeing "I already have a boyfriend" as particularly compelling.

[inhua]

ignore him. that's all how you can do. anything else is just gonna make things worse.

[Agape93]

Because some guys don't care if you're in one. Block him and report him.

[WhitneySnow]

He really think you’re hot. Block him on Insta and avoid him as much as possible.

[AdithyaR]

Sole guys are too dumb to take a hint when they get rejected.
Just block him online and ignore him in real life.

[spartan55]

Yeah, you want him to stop SO bad you won't block him. Have you actually told him to stop with the inappropriate remarks?

[CoolCatMar1]

I told him to stop and just stay friends that's the main reason i ak still talking to him and didn't block him. Maybe i need to say something different to make him understand i will never leave my boyfriend for him?

[CoolCatMar1]

He is just flirting but my friend also has a best friend who is a guy who caught feelings for her she still is friends with him she is single by the way

[spartan55]

Like another guy said: by keeping him around as a friend he thinks he still has a chance. He is being very disrespectful to you and your relationship. So I'm wondering why you are even friends with him at this point?

[serious_miss419]

Quit responding, quit replying, stop commenting back when he speaking or writes to you. If you’re replying then you’re allowing it to happen.

[Danny_dan92]

Women do this bullshit too.




It’s called not have respect for others

[Cubus]

If he even notices your walk then he is mad for you.

H won't listen to arguements

[OddBeMe]

What’s wrong with plain flirting? Non intention flirting…. as the police told me the other day.

[JohnK123]

Damn u talking about me? 😅 😅 😅

[CoolCatMar1]

Nooo about another guy you never saw me irl

[JohnK123]

Lmao Ik I’m just playing
And yet… haven’t seen u irl yet haha

[CoolCatMar1]

Yesss

[JohnK123]

❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[Luckycharms12]

Because he doesn't care about your relationship

[Luckycharms12]

Block him it's stopped

[CoolCatMar1]

Okayyy

[R_i_a]

Just avoid that person as much as you can😊

[R_i_a]

done

[Wise4myage]

Some guys just refuse to hear the word no.

[bananathunder]

creeper... block him

[Mafia24]

Aw I bet you like his attention

[CoolCatMar1]

No but I don't have to prove anything to a stranger

[Mafia24]

You just like his attention..
If you didn't like than you should block him instead of asking stranger. Dumb.

[CoolCatMar1]

I am not dumb i just am able to see a dude as a friend and just because he has a crush doesn't mean we can't be friends. I wouldn't cheat on my boyfriend anyway.

[Mafia24]

Lier

[CoolCatMar1]

L. o. L