Why is He suddenly interested in me?

[Anonymous]

My crush knew I Liked him for 4 years. However, He Never did anything about it and Kept chasing other Girls. Now all of a sudden He can‘t stop watching me from afar.

Why does he do this? Did he realize that his dream Girls Are out of his League so that He has to settle for less (me)? Or is He making fun of me?

[Lynnfriend]

Well there really is not enough information, just because he is watching you doesn't necessarily mean anything unless he has verbally expresses interest in you however maybe he has always been interested in you but felt he was out of your league. Why do you make it sound as if the other girls were better than you. Maybe they were just easy and not a challenge and he felt you were a challenge he wasn't ready for. Maybe he thought you would turn him down. Give yourself some credit they couldn't have been better or he would still be with one of them. sounds to me he wouldn't be the one settlings you would.

[Asker]

Maybe the better ones don't want him?

[Anonymous]

How do you know he’s watching you from afar?

[Asker]

He sits in Front of me and keeps Turning around. I also noticed him Copying my movements for instance checking the Time, yawning etc.

[Opinion Owner]

Gotcha. Well the last thing you wanna be is someone’s last resort. After 4 years of knowing you like him and never making a move, then to me it says other situations didn’t work out and now he’s looking to you. I don't know with certainty if these things are signs that he likes you but if they are I would not entertain it. He could’ve and should’ve picked you a long time ago.

[Vikkrram]

See if i like someone i know i can't tell them but my actions would let you know that i likes you. I won't be chasing any girl , i would have looked only to you.

After 4 years ma'am i would say either now he got intrested in you or he might have thaught that might be she's a easy way of getting a girlfriend.

[boggboss]

It could be literally any reason that u linked it to a negative makes me think you are insecure about yourself

[Asker]

That does Not answer my question tho 😂😂

[boggboss]

Because we can't produce the actual why again it could be anything from him always thinking you attractive to simply not wanting to make a move to him seeing u in somthing he thought was nice so now he is paying attention or you are just the next girl he will chase for a while before moving on

[Asker]

would you Really wait 4 years to approach someone you like? Especially if you know she liket you back? I don’t think so

[boggboss]

Maybe he didn't like you at the time peoples likes and wants romanticly can change

[Summeroflove]

Maybe ask him out

[KathrynTaylor]

Yes. Ditch him. Don’t be settled for.

[Anonymous]

Yes, that’s likely.

[Asker]

Which of Both?

[Opinion Owner]

Settling for less. How do I know? Personal experience. The same goes if a guy rejects you, or dumps you, then returns years later. Don’t be settled for. Find someone who thinks the world of you, or stay single.