This girl loves to talk to me in person way more over text, if we do talk via text she was sometimes copy by saying and write things like this...
"sorrryyyyyyyy" or write my names in CAPS or just like start/end things with "okkkk". She caries out her letters. I must say she replies to most of my stuff in person. Side note: she does act different when it is just us two around.
when girls like someone, texting and in person be not so different. It is just not easier to turn down someone in person if we are not interested, this is why it could be smoother.
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really wish it goes how u want it to be, but believe me, we like attention and we also like to run for safety. so if there are guys who already like us and we're comfortable talking to them, we'll take that always to look involved in something, especially if it's a workplace. this would definitely come clear if you asked her for a date and better saw the way she acts then.
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So i'll kind of say the whole story and sum it up. So she works at a grocery store and has a unreliable car. i'am a mechanic and she found out i'am a mechanic because i was talking about cars with a friend in her isle. So basically when i go in, her shift is done in 10 minutes and she would always talk to me in those 10 minutes. There are couple of instances when her co worker comes and the she is like "ok i gotta go now", but other times she tells me to come outside to look at her car, i probably looked at this damn thing like 12 times lmao. So one day we went for a test drive, the drive was 30 minutes then we talk for another hour and 30 minutes. Then when i fixed almost all of her problems she didn't sleep for 24 hours yet was talking my ear off for 3 hours and even helped me do work on her car. I tested her for a "free repair" and she said no 10 times and really wanted to pay me... It's gotten weird because she tells me personal stuff and we even sat in her car for 45 minutes and her co-worker gave me a dirty look... now here is the plot twist, her co-worker actually told me she has a boyfriend. SO i really dont know if she is being super friendly or whats going on because she doesn't text, yet we have all convos in person. I called her twice just to update her on something on her car, those calls lasted 40 minutes when in my mind it should of been maybe 5-10 minutes.
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it is a bit clearer now, well definitely there is something there, and if it is anything yes she likes you. the co-worker could be jealous, you should casually ask her if she really has a boyfriend since she got personal. But no, no girl would talk that much to a guy she has no interest in.
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Her phone background is her boyfriend, I have noticed she really really hides it. Funny thing is I did bring up her boyfriend, she never went into detail. The other funny thing is she pretends as if there is nothing going on but her co worker said theysee each other on the weekends. I really don't know what to do here.
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maybe you give her better attention and she's going on a hard time with him, then again wouldn't be proper if you both say flirt and ignore the fact that boyfriend doesn't exist. I say be the friendly you are, if she's really interested she'd talk about how she hates her relationship and start giving you hints it's not working out for her
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i honestly dont flirt or at least try to flirt. im being very truthfull there is times where i literally had to tell her "ok i have to leave now" and as i was leaving she would still want to talk to me lol. When we went for a test drive with her car she literally sat down, crossed her legs and was faced towards me the whole time (apprently this means a girl likes you but I don't know for certain). She told me very personal things about her and again its so weird becausre she acts and talks as if her boyfriend is non existant, only when it's us two together. When its just us two i literally cannot say a word because she talks 90% of the time lol
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i was very much thinking this week to do that. I have to do one more thing on her car either Thursday or Friday. I think then will be the perfect time because it will just be us two and i will call her out on everyting and if she says she does like me, then she has to make a decision with her current relationship because i dont want to continue anything more and do it the wrong way. Now really the ball is in her court.
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- Xper 5 Age: 33 , mho 47%1 y
Maybe a little bit childish to text like that, but if she acts different with just the two of you, then possibly.
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Just to add, if the girl you are texting and the girl you see in person have two different personalities, I would take that into consideration as well before deciding if anything more than a friendship can be made.
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thank you for your reply i really do appretice it. So i'll kind of say the whole story and sum it up. So she works at a grocery store and has a unreliable car. i'am a mechanic and she found out i'am a mechanic because i was talking about cars with a friend in her isle. So basically when i go in, her shift is done in 10 minutes and she would always talk to me in those 10 minutes. There are couple of instances when her co worker comes and the she is like "ok i gotta go now", but other times she tells me to come outside to look at her car, i probably looked at this damn thing like 12 times lmao. So one day we went for a test drive, the drive was 30 minutes then we talk for another hour and 30 minutes. Then when i fixed almost all of her problems she didn't sleep for 24 hours yet was talking my ear off for 3 hours and even helped me do work on her car. I tested her for a "free repair" and she said no 10 times and really wanted to pay me... It's gotten weird because she tells me personal stuff and we even sat in her car for 45 minutes and her co-worker gave me a dirty look... now here is the plot twist, her co-worker actually told me she has a boyfriend. SO i really dont know if she is being super friendly or whats going on because she doesn't text, yet we have all convos in person. I called her twice just to update her on something on her car, those calls lasted 40 minutes when in my mind it should of been maybe 5-10 minutes.
- Master Age: 441 y
You are firmly planted on her friend zone bench.
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- Xper 4 Age: 191 y
I agree with everyone that it's childish
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sounds a bit childish
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