If you've been trying to get someone's attention for months and haven't been successful, it's important to reassess your approach and consider whether or not it's the best way to get the attention you want. It's also important to consider if this person is worth your time and effort if they are not reciprocating your interest.
Instead of trying to step things up and push harder to get their attention, you might want to take a step back and give them some space. Focus on yourself and your own life, pursue your own interests and hobbies, and meet new people. This can help you take your mind off this person and also show them that you are a well-rounded and interesting individual.
If you still want to try to get their attention, you can try reaching out to them in a different way, such as sending a thoughtful message or giving them a call. However, it's important to be respectful of their boundaries and not be too pushy or demanding. If they don't respond or show interest, it may be time to accept that they are not the right person for you and move on.
Emotions are infectious, and people want to be around positively charged people because they want to be infected. When was the last time you felt like a winner, felt satisfied, accomplished, happy, content, powerful, loved, etc? These are the emotions I try to cultivate and build every day.
Society, the economy, and our educational system keep us focused on stress, anxiety, scarcity, fear and we forget about these positive emotions. Just like a muscle, if you don’t use it you lose it, and positive emotions start to fade away.
It does not have to be this way. Every day focus on recreating these emotions at will. The more you do it, the better and stronger the muscle gets.
So stop pushing, shoving, or chasing your audience and start attracting them to you and your ideas. You will find it very rewarding for you, your career and your finances.
Becoming more magnetic is the best way to get people’s attention and influence them.
How funny, I just answer the question centered around women, asking man on dates. That might be a necessary step if you were truly interested in another individual, and they are not taking your cues. Probably not the best idea to be too extreme with your visual/physical flirtations.
If you've been working at this for months and still not having success, you should've long moved on by now. Who would even put time and effort into that if the person is clearly not interested?
If I'm into a woman but she's not into me, I just move on to the next. I don't waste time fighting for her attention or feeding her ego by giving her attention that she won't give me back.
If you can find a short opportunity to talk about anything at all in private, step up close inside his personal space, almost touching, and look up into his eyes while smiling.
Maybe lightly touch his hand or forearm briefly when he says something amusing. It's a way of showing that you are comfortable with him and are open to physical contact.
I would find out their interests. For example, if they like going for a hikes, maybe mention to them you were planning to go for hike on the weekend, but your friend cancelled and seem disappointed. They may pick up on something like that and say, I like hiking, how about we go together?
You could suggest the art museum, if they like art or are an artist, that type of scenario works for any outing, as long as you find out from their friends or social media what their interests are.
In my experience ce it is best to show your interest like trying to hangout with them or even to get alone with them. Taking an opera unity to step out of the “group” conversation to get personal and ask them something under your breath or tell them something under your breath. At that point if they still don’t get it then go ahead and ask them out. Tell them you want a date and ask them if they like Chinese food or something. Just to open that door.
At an appropriate time, I would go up to them and tell them how I felt about them, and ask for what I wanted. I used to be VERY shy, and now I am VERY extroverted, because I got sick of being shy, so I changed myself.
God created Our Universe with Love and Free Will. Use your Free Will to Love!
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
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Well if you’ve been trying for now now either he’s not interested or you’re not giving him enough obvious hints to let him know you’re interested. Do you know if he’s even interested? Does he have a squirrel already? If you’re cute and he likes you just talking to him should be enough to get his attention. That’s why I question if he’s even attracted to you.
I have learned that if they haven't given you their attention from the start it's cause they aren't interested, at that point it's better to just not waste your time
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Anonymous
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I would try. No use in wasting time over a worthless guy who doesn't value my time. If he isn't giving me any attention that I need, he should better stay out of my life and never come back instead of wasting my further time
I tend to be forward and just call/text/email/social media. But if you mean someone that you don't know and want them to notice you there are a variety of things you can do just depends on the setting.
I have no clue. I guess that's part of the reason in single. Feels like , game on hard mode. Always guessing and trying to mind read women. Youd think looking and smiling would be the main one. But not the case. For me anyway.
Try talking to them and let them know you would like to get to know them better... If they don't want the same then move on and don't waste you time...
@Slay256 @nuthouse Single men would most likely be fairly excited. Gentleman who have a significant other, who might not be at their side at that moment, might be a little startled.
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