Say I'm dancing with a girl in the club and I find her really attractive and I want to let her know that, which of these words would you like to hear the most?
And say I manage to give her that compliment and she just says thanks instead of "you're (...) too!", which she might not do for whatever reason, would it be a good idea to just ask her point blank "do you find me (...) too?" It would just make everything so much easier, and I wouldn't be wasting my time on someone who isn't attracted to me.
PLEASE ELABORATE ON YOUR OPINIONS