Do girls avoid loner guys?

[Anonymous]

Feel free to give your explanation.

I always feel like I give off this aura of being a loner, probably because it's somewhat true. About 90% of the time if I'm going out or doing anything, it's by myself. I'm that guy who came to the party by himself and doesn't know anyone else there.

I'm wondering if that's a turn-off for most women?

Yes, that guy must be weird, scary or a loser without friends.

No, the mysterious loner guy is intriguing.

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+1 y

Well girls, thanks! You've given me some hope.

[Loulouchuchu]

It's not a turn off for women at all (Decent women at least). just fallen for a 'loner'. it got real for him and he freaked out as he normally does... Gutted but holding out hope. At the end of the day if your willing to try and not be a loner (Get out of your comfort zone ) then that will help massively. That and no fear of being alone is attractive to women (opposite of desperate ). Most definitely.

[aurelia1311]

No, quite the opposite for me.

I'm usually drawn to the guy that's alone, as opposed to the guy surrounded by people, being the "life of the party".

It shows he's independent, and doesn't need people to be happy. The guy I like is always by himself..the only downside is that he's quite shy.

[Asker]

This is a good point. I wonder if there are many American girls who think that way though?

[aurelia1311]

Hm I'm not sure, I'm not American :) I'm sure there are some though.

[rachiee]

So you go to a party by yourself and don't know anyone there? That sounds pretty brave to me so kudos to you. As long as you make an effort to talk to people and don't stand in the corner by yourself then chances are not a lot of people notice that you are a loner.

[aventaes]

hey I went to the uk alone kissed 2 girls in 15 days or rather they kissed me and I pretty much didn't know anyone there except in edinburgh where I knew 1 person. Thing is if you go to a party and have fun you come across as fun and you'll get attention if you're bored and passing time you'll come across as boring...

ow ima tad of a loner too

[Anonymous]

Parties are social gatherings. In the matter of minutes you can't meet numerous people.

[amilleman]

Honestly I wouldn't want to be around someone who's a loner cause it would make me feel uncomfortable. sorry.

[Asker]

No offense taken. Just remember it's not as important the impression you get when you first meet someone as what you find out after you get to know them.

[xxspottoxx]

I feel more confident talking to the "loner guy". It just makes conversations go a lot smoother when there aren't a bunch of guys around...

[tohrment]

No, it's not. I find it oddly endearing.

[Anonymous]

it don't really matter as long as your body language doesn't put people of talking to you :)

[Asker]

ahh...the mystical body language stuff that girls pick up on...well, I have no clue about that, so hopefully I'm ok

[Opinion Owner]

yea you'll probably be alright just as long as you don't walk around with your head down all the time :)

[moviedude714]

i'm surprised at the results