Why would a girl look at your crush when you said you were happy cos u think he's interested?

[Anonymous]

Just something im curious about, it didn't work out but i often wonder what that meant

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Isn't that normal to study him? I don't really understand how lots of women think with Qs like these.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

If I say to my guy friends that I am interested in woman, obviously they study her closely, no? Some might even start to like her too now that I told them all the things I find beautiful about her. But she is mine!

[Asker]

Well we weren't exactly friends, she was making digs about him re my crush. Im inexperienced so i dont know why these things happen

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I see! One of those girls. There are some girls and even occasionally guys where if they know what you like, they're such assholes that now they set their targets to them. Those aren't good friends or even acquaintances though in my opinion. They're the leeches of love.

[Asker]

Do u think it meant she knew he liked me?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I don't attribute that much intelligence to those types, only jealousy.

[Asker]

Im Not exactly pretty looking so dont understand why anyone would be jealous of me

[BungusHighFivePizza]

You might be prettier than you think but we're talking about targets rather than sources. If I tell me a bunch of people that I'm in love with a pot of gold I spotted from a distance and this is all mine now because I spotted it, they don't have to even think I'm competition to want that gold. In fact, it helps if they think I'm not real competition. They will think they deserve the gold even more and not someone like me.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

*If I tell [...]

[Selcuk3169]

You are absolutely right, people would be happy if everyone behaved this way.

[Asker]

? What do u mean

[Selcuk3169]

I mean people are very interesting