Help! how to be a better flirt?

[Anonymous]

So, when it comes to guys I’m interested in the flirt in me barely comes out. I never touch or tease or realize when to seize the opportunity. So a lot of times it just ends up in friendship.

I didn’t grow up in a house hold with loving, cute, flirty banter. It was just me and my mom and she was never in relationships to my knowledge so I didn’t see that with her nor any other person I grew up around. & my mother wasn’t too affectionate toward me.

I’m trying to break this cycle. I know as a kid I was joyful and playful but suppressed it most times.

Any of u have any tips of being more flirty?
I’m 33 and want to become better at being fun and flirty for my future hubby💕

[Anonymous]

It's great that you're interested in improving your flirting skills! Here are a few tips that might help:

1. Smile and make eye contact: One of the simplest and most effective ways to flirt is to smile and make eye contact with the person you're interested in. This can help convey your interest and openness to conversation.

2. Use playful teasing: Lightly teasing or playfully teasing someone can help create a fun and flirtatious atmosphere. Just make sure not to take it too far or be mean-spirited.

3. Find common interests: If you're struggling to come up with things to talk about, try finding common interests that you can bond over. This can help create a connection and make flirting feel more natural.

4. Show interest in their life: Ask questions about their hobbies, interests, and experiences. This can help show that you're interested in getting to know them better and can lead to more meaningful conversations.

5. Be confident: Confidence is attractive! Focus on your positive qualities and try to project confidence and self-assurance.

Remember, flirting is supposed to be fun and lighthearted. Don't put too much pressure on yourself or worry too much about getting it "right." Just be yourself and have fun with it!

[Asker]

thank you so much!! im actually excited to improve.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome and I’m happy for you

[mb120101]

You dont have to do anything specific just be nice and genuinely yourself and if a guys worth it he will grab the wheel. All you have to do is give him an opening

[mb120101]

Laugh at his jokes and ask him questions about himself, ask for his info. Thats it

[Asker]

thank you! i appreciate your response!

[YourExLover69]

It's very simple.. laugh in his joke, supportive and caring and cooperative approach helps you..

by the way ever been in relationships before?

If you have confusion you can follow my profile and talk there

[Asker]

Hey! I haven't. My interest always leads to friendships. I've gone on dates from online dating and with those the interest for me isn't there.

[YourExLover69]

Alright follow my profile. We will discuss your matter in detail and I will help you for sure.

[EpicSnail]

When you meet a man you are attracted to, focus on being happy, rather than on succeeding or failing with that guy.

[Asker]

thank you thank you!! i can def get in my head, a lot!

[MrCommodore]

With a little practice you can learn to flirt without making it too obvious.