Guys, do you find women attractive who are competitive?

[tamarax7]

Hi guys

would you consider women who are competitive attractive? For instance, during sports or when playing board games or just a simple and fun bet.

thanks a lot

[BoopBoopBeep]

I agree with much of what RingOfFire says below. Now if she want's to hit the trails with me and we both strive to finish faster than last week, that's awesome. She wants to push through one more set at the gym? Hell yeah girl bring it! If she's a sore loser or a sore winner, that's a turnoff. If she HAS to compete against everything, that's a turn off (aren't we typically on the same team?), if she wants to sit down and see if we can knock out the next level of Halo that we've been struggling with, wifey material.

[RingOfFire]

It's a tough question because "competitive" can mean different things. In general I find competitiveness to be a masculine trait and not particularly attractive in women. But I do enjoy a "competitive" form of flirting with someone I like. I find it attractive when a woman can hold her own in that sport.

[MrOracle]

As long as she's not competing in MASCULINE areas, then it's fine, and could be a plus. But if she's trying to out-man other men, that's a huge turn-off.

[MementoMori777]

Yes considering I'm not competitive, watching them be competitive let's me see the girl being being adorable for a while.

[FilmGuy93]

Could be very attractive, yeah. Being competitive doesn't need to become shitty and underhanded.

[TrillXHippy]

Yes I do find a competitive woman attractive. She could be a competitive swimmer for example and I’ll think that’s attractive

[kellytheman]

Yeah as long they are not sore loser or sore winners. I don't mind I'd she does a little funny trash talking but if she starts being relentless then it might turn me off.

[Anonymous]

No, generally any manly trait is unattractive.

[tamarax7]

Could you elaborate more?

[Opinion Owner]

Women generally want men with “manly” traits… it biological.
They want assertive, powerful, competitive, rugged, protective, take charge, etc.
They don’t want weak, quiet, soft, effeminate, beta, submissive types.

Men want women who are quiet, soft, gentle, submissive, etc.
A female who is loud, aggressive, rough, etc is a turn off. Being competitive usually requires aggression and roughness.

[A8619]

Unironic use of the word "beta" tells me you probably have very little experience or success with women. So does your silly generalizations from RedPill nonsense videos. There are many, many women who like soft men (part of why K-Pop and J-Pop is so popular) and nany, many men who like aggressive, rough and loud women. Those women are generally not lacking in male attention.

[Opinion Owner]

@A8619 Your poor attempt at shaming me, shows that you have no ability to accept things you don’t like and have to reduce arguments to personal attacks. My success with women and your lack of ability to deduce my or anyones sexual success, has nothing to do with basic facts of my statements.
Regardless of females who enjoy and admire the physical look of a soft featured male, generally women biologically want men who can protect them, men who are not women. You can refute this but most dating apps data, and other research data will show that women only find the top 20% of men attractive and those men are generally 6 foot or taller, and have standard masculine features.

Also in regard to the men who “like” loud, aggressive women… men generally are less picky over all but having a manly female is not commonly sought after in either porn, dating sites, etc.
Neither of these means it never happens the other ways.