Is she into me?

[Anonymous]

I am a lesbian, I have a friend. She said she’s not into girls. We text all the time, she sends me pic of herself in a cute dress in a dressing room, others, etc. After she knows how I feel. I know she cares deeply about me because she remembers little things others don’t who should. What is this.. I feel this is more. Is it or is this just best friends? I have several best friends and I’ve never felt this.

[Anonymous]

Of course you never felt like that with your other friends if you were never romantically interested in them. As someone who acts that way with her bestie, I don’t see anything suggestive about her behavior but then again she may not realize it triggers you. Perhaps you should set some boundaries and take a step back from that friendship so you can get over your crush. Better than heartache and feeling led on.

[Nikki1989]

You could just ask her. I know that is awkward, but that is how I handle these situations.

[Asker]

I did.. she said she is not into girls. I think she may like the attention honestly but I think she cares for me deeply as a friend. How doesn’t like someone who is supportive and caring? Thanks for your answer!

[Asker]

Sorry *who

[Avicenna]

Yeah, she may be hinting she’s open to something, but you want to be pretty certain before making a move

[boobliker]

maybe just ask her when you are face to face next not in a text

[Oliverlogan263]

It may be that your friend is just being friendly and enjoys your company, but it's also possible that she could have romantic feelings for you. The best way to find out would be to have an open and honest conversation with her about how you feel and see how she responds.

[Anonymous]

Does she let you see her naked? Or does she send naked pics?

[In_Trance]

I think so