Why are so many girls with boyfriends who are more flirty than single girls are with single guys?

[Anonymous]

In my experience it truly feels like most girls are flirtier to others when they're in a relationship than when they're single.

I am sure plenty of you disagree but please try to explain if you understand me.

[kylee2437]

Because flirty can come down to a certain personality , and people that flirt and actually put themselves out there are more likely to be in a relationship because they are more open with their affectionate side.

[kylee2437]

@markmarcelo flirting can 100% be a personality trait and if that’s who you choose as a partner, you either trust them or you don’t. Insecurity is an ugly personality trait people carry around and use it way too often in relationships to change people who they pick as a partner

[kylee2437]

Having a flirty personality doesn’t make you a disloyal partner. Insecurity and thinking you own people and can dictate their personality is the reason why relationships don’t often work out.

[inhua]

bad behaviors designed to put the relationship at risk is being normalized

while she has a safety net, she is free to do whatever she wants including potentially jeopardizing the relationship. without the safety net, she's on her best behavior

so when the guy feels disrespect, she can accuse of him insecurity and give herself a reason to dump or cheat on him

[Asker]

Ohh this answer could definitely trigger some people but honestly to me, this sounds pretty accurate.

[Nikki1989]

Half the time what men see as flirty is just women being friendly.