Guys, Lets Say A Girl Told You She's Gay (or you knew she was gay) Would You Still Flirt With Her If You Found Her Attractive?

[bannacookies]

Yes

No

[JustinTheGreat]

I’m a gay man so this question doesn’t apply to me

but the way some straight men try so hard to “turn” lesbians, is disgusting 💀 They hear that and think of it as a challenge. Straight men really fetishize gay women.

[DaveJord]

No really, but yeah you are right. I am straight, I fetishize over sexy women, those my friend come in all shapes and sizes, and yes they even come as lesbians. But for the most part, its fun to play along with the lesbian when she make it fun, even when you know it will never happen.

Because the lesbian has a different perspective on it, and if they are comfortable with your flirting it just fun... unless she is not comfortable with it... and when they are not it's not even fun in any way.

It's because she is a woman, being gay does not change that... but you know that it's just all for the fun of it, and yeah lesbians still know other straight women... so maybe she will throw your name around.

Now I do not know many lesbians this day, but once upon time I used to work around three of them, and one was cool the other were not! It is true, I totally would have had sex with her, but she was a lesbian. I knew that was not going to happen, but we had fun with it.

[LiamJHayden]

No. That seems disrepectful to me.

[DaveJord]

Depends on how sexy she was and how fun she made it to be flirty. Some lesbains are cool like that, some are not.

[BoobSlayer]

I find the statement made by @DaveJord that a guy would only flirt with a lesbian woman based on her level of attractiveness or the fun she provides in the flirting process to be quite misogynistic and demeaning. This thought disregards the individuality, personal preferences, and the intrinsic worth of lesbian women, reducing them to mere objects of male attention based on their appearance or the entertainment value they provide.

Lesbian women, like all humans, are multifaceted beings, and their worth goes far beyond their physical appearance or the extent to which they find themselves appealing or enjoyable to flirt with. Their sexuality and relationships should not be defined solely by the perspective of others, particularly those who may attempt to objectify and exploit them. @ro-sterbreast knows what I mean, because he has done a lot of work in this area.

[DaveJord]

misogynistic and demeaning seriously, she is flirting back it's been disgust so don't be one of the people who are addicted to outrage. I flirt she flirts, it's not real flirting we both know that but it fun to do.

I mean your name is @boobslayer who is seriously being misogynistic and demeaning? Whatever dude, thanks for the call out.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Have never met a homosexual female, in person, who I found attractive. None of them were appealing in that way. Even if they were though, I would find no point in flirting with them. Doubt they'd appreciate a guy doing that to begin with. Especially the ones I've met... they'd be pissed if a guy did that and would find it disrespectful.

[kellytheman]

Maybe just to have fun with her or be funny knowing we both knowing it ain’t going nowhere. I do have some girls who are friends who are gay or at least bisexual. I did have sex with one of them but it was with another that she liked who was bi and she wanted a guy and girl at the same time.

[Berethor]

I would still be attracted to her as girl on girl is hot, but what you mean by flirt exactly? :)

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Girl-On-Girl_Is_Hot

[normalice]

If she was a friend or I otherwise knew her well enough to know she wouldn't find it objectionable, and flirting was a convenient way to pass the time in the situation.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

There's no problem for me to date a girl who is Bisexual, but I would think if she's Gay, She is most likely be mainly attractive to Females only.

[Anpu23]

Casually, unless it made her feel uncomfortable. Im a natural flirt, but can control myself if appropriate.

[NathanDavis]

nope... but I don't flirt with women anyway, lol

[CapnHawk]

Flirting with her is an exercise in futility, as well as possibly being demeaning to her.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I see no reason not to. Good to stay in practice, and offhand I can think of 4 lesbian friends in the past that wanted to give it a spin "just in case." Happy to oblige.

[tfan1]

If she prefers pussy instead of penis - what’s the point of flirting? Doubtful you will change her preference

[Charliefretz329]

Probably, it’s ok as long as I know it won’t go nowhere. I’m a flirty kind of guy. It’s more of a giving compliments kind of fun. But only if she’s appreciative and not offended.

[Drumlin2001]

In a jokey way maybe, if she was comfortable with it. Depends how good a friend she was

[blueonblack22]

Gay or bi? There are women who identify as being bi and have never had relations with another woman.

[Pacquet]

I would joke around but I joke around with everyone that way.

[Huntingnfishin]

It would feel a bit like flirting with a dude to me

[AimeeKyle]

I would flirt with her only if she were open to flirting / flirting back for fun…. If she weren’t interested or playful, then no. Flirting doesn’t mean sex or that you are going to have sex…. it can just be banter.

[Staximus]

I had a drunk lesbian flirting with me last night, she was all up in my grill with her funny haircut. Her girlfriends scolded her and she got embarrassed and ran away before I could get her phone number haha

[SolitarySolace]

Men still flirt with women and risk an ex parte restraining order or PPO? I mean, that’s what happened to me in college so I stopped chasing women in general.

[genericname85]

yeaa, cause you can not take what women say at face value. i don't mean this in a derogative sexist way. but women often say what they thing they shoulkd say instead of the actual factual truth.

[Lokiion]

Ok so I actually have a friend like this and we flirt all the time not in a serious way though

[Kabluie]

Not sure why it matters, I have friends on all sorts of spectrum who are queer, we could end up being friends of playmates.

[BadApple69]

I would flirt with her even if I didn’t find her attractive. Friendly flirting can be fun.

[Al_Musafir]

Physical looks mean nothing when someone is not in the right direction.

[backdoorman]

Isn't women's sexuality supposedly "fluid"? Just sayin.

But seriously, no I wouldn't.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Well if she is biologically a girl then sure I can still have sexual attraction to her but it's going to be a waste of time trying to make her "straight-en her up"

[Aiko_E_Lara]

*Trying to "straight-en her up"

[Freyke]

Yes I would. But more to play around as an inside joke between us.

[Orion84]

No, I wouldn't. What would be the point?

[BigDog1989]

Nope

Also, why then should I remain friends with her?