Send anonymous flowers?

[Anonymous]

Alright, I understand that everyone here would probably tell me to not be a p**** and just tell her that I like her...but its a thought that just hit my mind and I can't sleep till I find an answer.

Would it be creepy/inappropriate to send flowers to this girl I like? I would have it delivered anonymously of course and let her play with the curiosity. I have a feeling she likes me already, but idk...thought it would be interesting. I think we are both playing a game of cat and mouse regarding letting each other know that we like each other so I thought maybe this would be yet another hint to throw out there

Ideas? Opinions?

[ilovecookies]

I've had 3 stalkers before, so it would SCARE me a lot...>.< terrify me

Maybe you should put in a phrase there that identifies you...

That's just my case... but if you have made it very clear that you like her and she has showed interest, it might work :)

I don't like playing games, but to each their taste.

Maybe gift her her fav flowers, that shows her that its someone close to her :)

[Asker]

Well, I have asked for her number and shown interest in her generally...I might wait it out a bit longer and see if she shows interest still. I guess in that way "anonymous" flowers would probably be obvious to her. Then again, as I'm losing sleep over the issue I might just come out and let her know how I feel

[Asker]

I've heard others advise you put your initials in he note. What do you think?

[ilovecookies]

yeah, as long as you show her that you aren't one of those scary stalkers it'd be nice :) I guess I am just horrified o stalkers... hey, good luck :) Don't worry about showing her how you feel bc, after all, you are looking for someone who can complete you, accept you and understand you. If she's not the one, you don't waste so much time, if she likes you, good for you :)

[Asker]

I think I might weigh some options tomorrow - after I am able to see/talk to her again. I don't have her address anyways and may not be able to get it till tomorrow anyways. Maybe I could flat out ask her? That way I could tell her I'd like to mail her a surprise and now she knows its from me.

Idk, after a brief conversation with my sister for some insight on the matter...she thinks the whole sending anything is a bit odd without first flat out telling her that I like her

[ilovecookies]

I would agree with your sis :)

[teamderek13]

Do it. If she knows and likes you, then it's not creepy. It's actually really sweet. And if you feel weird about it later, She doesn't have to know it was you. If you end up together, I think it would be a pleasant surprise to tell her...and who knows, she might assume it's you and it might make up her mind if she's on the fence.

[Asker]

Do I leave a note with "Your secret admirer"? Or is that way too cliche? (Other thoughts?)

[teamderek13]

lol waaaay too cliche. Um, I'd go with something original. Like, I don't know..."You have beautiful eyes" or something. As long as it's specific to her.

[Asker]

lol, the eyes comment might be a bit freaky (or at least it sounds freaky in my mind). Ill have to try and think of an appropriate annd cute comment to make that would make a hint of who I am.I figure if I am having a hard time letting hr know - I could basically say something like that in the note: "while I try to figure out how to tell you how I fell, enjoy the flowers" or something like that (sorry for mistypes...trying to do this from my phone)

[teamderek13]

that's so cute! I think it's great

[moaterboat]

Don't do it because women have crazy imaginations so she will either assume her new secret admirer is some crazy psycho stalker, or she will get her hopes up and think it is mr. perfect, and neither of those work in your favor.