I would not do that , if you want to get with this woman put your name on it. Women are attracted to boldness, brashness, intelligence, strength, and assertiveness. Doing what you are talking about screams that you are a weak and afraid male.
We are not so far removed from being cavemen and cavewomen. In deep dark places that we don't like to talk about we still think the same way. Hence looking weak, especially in the face of a rival i.e. her Boyfriend would be very bad for your cause.
Look at this like planting a seed for the future. Since she has a live in boyfriend nothing you do will bear fruit right away. You need to plant that seed in her psyche that you are a guy who at least is interested, and is not afraid to show interest even in the face of her BF. She will not likely leave her Boyfriend just for you. However if , or more likely when she does... you will at least have planted that seed. You will be the guy who was not afraid to show your intentions unlike all the others who just lurked waiting for her to break up. You will have demonstrated strenth if you put your name on it.
Also don't send flowers just send a card. Something that's not overtly romantic just "thinking about you" and write your true feelings on it. Show that you are interested but don't say anything sexual. Women love things like that.
She may reject you on the basis of having a BF. But when she no longer has a Boyfriend you will be in a good position.
Good luck.
DO ITTTT!, it would suck to be him but hey like you said "You only live once" so why not have some fun. Why don't you mix the whole thing with the flowers, spend the extra cash on more expensive chocolates or a stuffed animal, whatever comes to mind. Buy them in your area, send it to her address without the return address. It should be a lot easier than finding a shop near her.
Seems like you already made up your mind, but try and think about her side before you do send it. Yes, it's sweet and nice to be sending her flowers and chocolates, but you mentioned that 1) she has a boyfriend and 2) they live together. If things were already going well between the two of them, you'd be creating a possibly stir. Sure, you can say "the boyfriend can f*** off", but if she's happy with him and it causes drama, you're just dragging this through the dump.
Personally, I wouldn't be keen on receiving stuff like that if I'm happy with a guy. My two cents; you're free to do whatever you want.
If you go through 1-800-flowers or FTD.com, they are anon. unless you choose to put your name on the card. They contract through local florists in her area. I worked with FTD.com for a while, and if you place the order online or by phone, just don't put your name on the card that is included, and she'll have no idea who they are from.
Google flower stores in her state or area,give them a call and ask if you can wire or send them the money and they send her the flowers
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I don't know the story, but if I were you I wouldn't send flowers anonymously for a few reasons. Firstly, it will confuse her. Receiving flowers and chocolate out of the blue without having any idea where or who they came from is going to do more harm than good. Secondly, if she lives with her boyfriend then receiving flowers may cause some problems between them. Unless this is your intention, you probably don't want that.
Sending flowers and chocolate is a great and really romantic idea, but sending them anonymously and to a girl who has a boyfriend is probably not the best idea. Then again, this is just my opinion and I could be wrong, so good luck with whatever you choose man.
Ok man sorry but I am being blunt, she will honestly get flowers or chocolates and laugh and think sucker. Also id like to know how you got her address you creep? You got no shot, you sound like a good person all in all, she has boyfriend just give it up, I gotta ask how close were you two in high school, assuming you were your best to add on facebook than you can know who she's dating. You may feel good about gifting her but that may have a negative effect, if she don't know who you are and you know where she lives it might scare her and lead her to think she's being stalked, you best to try another women, I know you may thinks she's the one and only weve all been there but get over her man the sooner the better
Lol your insulting my intelligence, I insulted you because your answer is stupid I'm not starting sh*t I just think your answer is crap,i don't take you to be dumb so don't take me to be( I just think down the road) and to be honest its a pretty crap question in itself. This guy obviously doesn't get any and is a creep and a half. I already took a stab at him. The guy obviously like this broad and him just sending her chocolates is messed. His best bet would be to give it up. He has no shot with her, and I can see why he wants anonymous because chick either don't even know he exists or werent even that close, chances are he's some fat nerd. If he wants to do it and evidently likes creeping people out and is gonna do it despite her possible reactions. So I say to him, do it do as you feel necessary, just don't put to much time, money and effort to something that will most likely end up in the trash or regifted. I feel sorry for this guy
Most floorists do anonymous delivery. Contact a floorist in her city, pick out your order, kindly ask for specific instruction for the delivery man to purchase chocolates to deliver to her as well (they will probably do it), pay via credit card, and ask them to keep it anonymous. Problem solved.
stalker much? jk you know what would be badass though? get some flowers and make them out to be from her boyfreind then shed be like awww and he'd be like wtf. and that way you can trick her into liking your flowers cus she won't know they came from a stalker and she might even put em in a vase
Bad Idea you will regret it if finds out.
That said I'd do it anyway. Just send it in. and tag it with "Penn says Hi. Work for World Peace. Pass it on.
This is a little joke by the great Penn & Teller!
You're supposed to buy a stranger in a restaurant strawberry Jell-O and tell them that phrase. Then you leave and never see them again. It's super fun
Sending flowers/chocolates is kinda creepish if you down know each other very well. You only know her from a distance and she probably don't know you that much.
Take those flowers and chocolates and send them to your mother. She'll appreciate them more and won't cause any problems.
Either find this girl on Facebook and communicate with her, or just find another girl. But please no creepy behaviour.
I believe some places won't deliver packages without a return address, safety protocol and such, but if that's the case, put a small card with a P.S. note...: "Wanted to keep it anonymous, so I used a friend's mailing address. :) " lol or something like that.
that is desperate and creepy behavior. what could you possibly get out of this anyway? if you really need to express your feelings to her, your best bet is probably to tell her in person (if you ever get the chance) how you feel about her.
you are accomplishing absolutely nothing by anonymously sending chocolates and flowers
this sounds very desperate. that's never gonna look attractive.
and what's the point in making a gesture to someone and trying to hide that its from you. that doesn't look very confident.
so your coming across as not confident and desperate...good luck mate
:LOL that's the prob but anywayThere's no harm in trying who knows LOL JUst do it,thats so sweet :))
Pick your favorite florist/chocolatier, call, pay for it, an dictate a flirtatious card signed with something other than your name.
Do NOT send her anything. She has a boyfriend. Don't disrespect another dude like that.
Buy them and send them in the post to her address, and don't put a return address.
Call a local flower shop near her place and tell them that. They will send it anonymously
That is utterly adorbale do it do it
send her one pink rose per day anonymously
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Do it and put your name on it!
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